Sex Blogging Rank:  1

One of the original couples of sex blogging. Not to call them old, but they have been sex blogging online since 1997. From hosting AOL private chat ‘ask me anything’ sessions, to leading the sexual blogging revolution on blogger (which eventually banned and forced adult content creators to start their own pages). Their blog is a real life open book on their lives, opinions, photos, videos, and more. Before onlyfans and pay sites, we had this.  Beautiful content for free, from couples who just loved to blog.


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Study shows, Longer Penis Size Does Matter, especially to women that have vaginal orgasms through penetration

Q & A: My Husband (almost 5 inches in penis size) offered to wear a big strap on to see if I could orgasm. Should I?

From not having orgasms as a teenage girl, to guaranteed orgasms as a woman.

Q & A: What Are Some Creative Ways To Please My Wife Sexually?

Q&A: How to introduce condoms after months of raw sex?

Sex Blogging Rank:  2

JoEllen Notte, otherwise known as, The Redhead Bedhead, is a writer, speaker, researcher and mental health advocate who also talks about sex toys. This all started a few years back when she, at the age of 32, ended a sexless marriage, rebooted her life and decided to learn all about sex. JoEllen figured if she had things to learn but felt scared, alone, and broken, the same was probably true for others. This led her to have what she thought was a terribly novel idea- she would talk about sex on the internet!

Since 2012 JoEllen has written about sexvibratorsmental health, and how none of us are broken on her award-winning as well as for xoJane, Bitch MediaDaily Dot, AlterNet and Kinkly. She traveled North America touring the best sex shops in the US and Canada, led workshops on sexual communicationnavigating consenthaving casual sex kindly, and online dating, and spoken at length on sex toys .  However, she says she is still the happiest and most effective when writing and speaking on behalf of quiet people who have sex.

JoEllen is certified as a sex educator through the Planned Parenthood of Massachusetts Sexuality Education Certification Series and has spoken at Clark College, University of Chicago, Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Summit and the Playground Conference.

Sound good?  She is!   So go check her out!


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Today was my first treatment of the new round of #TranscranialMagneticStimulation And the day feels kind of brutal. I don’t actually think those two things are connected but I am glad that I got this week’s work done ahead of time. I’m going to collapse in a heap with my dog. JoEllenNotte photo

This interview about sex and #depression with @Fun_Size_SexEd was such a blast! (yes, I find talking about depression fun!)

Make your world a bit less harsh for those around you who may be facing #mentalhealth struggles

It's the LAST WEEK of my #MentalHealthAwarenessMonth sale! Get a signed copy of my book, THE MONSTER UNDER THE BED: SEX, #DEPRESSION, AND THE CONVERSATIONS WE AREN'T HAVING for $17 INCLUDING SHIPPING! Follow the link in my bio to get yours!

The offer is…
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I'm starting a new round of #TranscranialMagneticStimulation tomorrow and since the 1st week can bring with it intense headaches I spent the last 3 days getting all of this week's work done. Now, I'm covered if my brain doesn't cooperate this week. Bring on the brain zapping!

Sex Blogging Rank:  3

Who is she?

She is Molly Moore. Molly is a blogger, photographer, author, speaker, and podcaster.  She writes about sex, relationships, kink, sexuality and variety of other related subjects.  Her pronouns are she/her, she is Queer, Bi-sexual, Non-monogamous, Kinky, Femme, Cis. For a while she considered herself submissive but has recently discovered that she may have domme tendencies.  Molly is 49 years old and a mother of two kids.

Molly has been blogging since the beginning of 2010. She started blogging as a place to put some of the many erotic stories she had written.  It also inspired her to finish some of her writings.   She originally thought she would write daily so she named her blog, Molly’s DAILY Kiss.

On her blog you will find frank portrayals and discussions of sex (including images). A lot of what she writes about is her own experiences, which includes sex toy reviews, and some fiction covering political and social topics.


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If you buy my 3 month subscription bundle on OF I will send you a private, just for, 3 mins video

If you buy the 6 months bundle I will send you a 6 minutes video just for you

Happy Wordpress 6.0 release day...

Have you done a backup before updating?

So many options. Got there eventually
Wordle 340 5/6


Sex Blogging Rank:  4

Lorrae, founder of Slutty Girl Problems, believes that every woman deserves to have an awesome, loving relationship with her partner(s), her sex life, and herself – and it’s her mission to make sure that happens. Lorrae’s goal is to empower women to create the life and love they crave – with relationship, mindset, and wellness tools to live adventurous, free, and happy AF.

For as long as she can remember, she has been interested in sexuality. Since college, it’s been her passion. In kindergarten, she got in trouble for kissing boys on the playground. As soon as she learned how to use a computer, she was up late learning about sex from porn (not the best sex-ed tool, but she worked with what she had).   Now she gives women a better platform to learn from!


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Last chance for your Miami Music Week @DefectedRecords tix! 😍💦 Come join me with #thefestivalbabes and @Blnkcnvspres 💗✨

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I’ll be there for @djwillclarke! 😍 Will you? 💗 with #thefestivalbabes for #miamimusicweek
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BLNK CNVS Presents ☮️ @Blnkcnvspres
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Sex Blogging Rank:  5

Sunny Megatron is a Sexuality & Kink Educator and media personality. She’s the host and executive producer of the Showtime original television series, Sex with Sunny Megatron, plus co-hosts the AASECT Award winning American Sex Podcast and Open Deeply Podcast.

Sunny is a Certified Relationship Coach and American College of Sexologists International Certified Sex Educator plus was voted XBIZ 2021 Sexpert of the Year and Kinkly’s Sex Blogging Superhero of 2017. She’s been featured in Cosmo, Playboy, Buzzfeed, CNN, and more plus is a contributing editor of XBIZ Premiere Magazine and a regular columnist for Sexual Health Magazine. Her first book, Customizable Kink: A Strategic Guide to Erotic Play will be released in 2022.


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Like we didn't all see this bullsh*t coming--but doesn't make it any less infuriating🤬

Check the comments, @socreamalicious is a Black-owned ice cream company with the same flavors that's sold in Walmart, Target, etc.

Article with more about the BS:
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Dropping this for those folks that give "bear hugs." Don't bear hug someone w/o consent, please! I'm ok w/regular hugs. When someone asks if they can hug & I say yes, I expect that. Every so often someone surprise vice grip hugs me & it's SO PAINFUL!

OVERJOYED! My reaction to propylene glycol includes natural flavors & they're in EVERYTHING.

I've been distressed over never being able to eat out again. How do I travel for work?!

Just learned @ChipotleTweets is the only chemical free food chain! 😭🙏

Auntie Midori is here for all your questions & curiosities. Want to learn some new ways to use that old favorite toy? Maybe you're not sure how to navigate shifting D/s dynamics.

LIVE Tomorrow - Tuesday, 5/24 at 11am PST

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As someone who has to take unfathomable amounts of magnesium to avoid becoming a walking muscle spasm AND a who is obsessed with puns to a disturbingly abnormal level ... this meme gave me a brain orgasm 😂 SunnyMegatron photo

Wow, this thread! I had no idea this was the situation in Switzerland 😳

Sex Blogging Rank:  6

Betty Butch is a queer, nonbinary blogger on the autism spectrum. She writes about pleasure, risk-aware consensual kink, neurodiversity, queerness, mental health, relationships, and body positivity.  She also has sex toy reviews, personal essays, guides, and the occasional erotica.  Reviews include toys for vulvas, kink gear, and porn of various mediums.

She believes sex and kink are adult forms of play, and she has a big imagination. Betty Butch wants to spend her life exploring, learning, and theorizing. There are adventures and realizations to be had, and she is keen on writing about both.


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it's also a very intentional watering down of the term BECAUSE children who have fewer safe adults in their lives and no access to education about their own bodies and consent are more vulnerable to grooming, which is great for the adults who actually want to predate kids.

Generally, glass toys from reputable makers are super sturdy! But if you drop it just right.... 😭😭😭

My Crystal Delights plug is absolutely *shattered*. It was so pretty 💔

I do not fake enthusiasm. If I write "oh my goodness!" in an email, I need you to imagine the whitest, most sincere and breathless delivery possible, because that's exactly how I am. Think church lady but, like, gay.

Sex Blogging Rank:  7

Submissive Feminist started off as a personal blog back in March of 2011. Since then, the blog has grown to be a place to connect with the online community, share her experiences and knowledge in kink and sexuality, and teach the importance of self expression.


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this whole day has been 💩

Woke up heart-broken today. I'd very much appreciate any kind words or pet photos to help me get through the day. 💔

Y'all ever wonder what pure magic looks like? ✨️🔮

Some absolutely beautiful chameleon crystal dawns (in medium+)!

So many adjectives. So sparkly. ☺️
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I absolutely love bullying my partner into engaging in kinks he's too ashamed to admit

then making him cum to them.

I got a gorgeous dick in the mail today and I can't wait to share it with ya'll tomorrow when I have energy to take a cute photo of it. 😍

As I attempt to reclaim my sex drive after a long injury, I'm wondering if I should revitalize my sex spreadsheet. Organization is hot, you guys. 🥵

Sex Blogging Rank:  8

As a sex blogger, Kayla Lords writes about sex!  Always in a positive way. Always with an eye on both teaching and learning. Always to help foster a sense of community from the highly satisfied person getting all the sex they want to the newest member of the BDSM community.


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Sex Blogging Rank:  9

“Is monogamy dead?” is a question being asked by almost every major news publication and magazine over the last two years. Awareness of alternatives to traditional monogamy is at an all time high, as more people are seeking resources to intelligently…


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Sex Blogging Rank:  10

Coffee and Kink is ran by Amy Norton (she/her pronouns.) She is a sex blogger, a digital sexuality journalist, an erotica author, an adult product reviewer, and a kink educator and community organiser.

She is a 30 year old queer, cis woman living in the UK. Some words she uses to describe herself include #Sparklefemme, polyamorous, a crap swinger, an intersectional feminist, and a very-occasionally-switchy submissive. She is also a survivor, a mental illness sufferer, and a writer above all.

Great blog and she proudly lets the world know, she likes her sex likes she likes my coffee: hot and several times a day.


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Coffeeandkink keeps her tweets protected, so no feed!