Is there something wrong with me “down there”? Smelly vagina
When me and my boyfriend started dating he told me how much he liked going down on girls, and then after her tried it with me he noticeably changed. I’d never had a partner before him and he tried to be nice but he mentioned that I tasted different than other girls. I still think about it a lot because I don’t know what’s wrong with me. I had showered and washed carefully in that area, and I had went to a gyno who said I had no pH problems or infections. I’ve never had yeast infections or any general problems down there but now I don’t know what’s wrong in comparison to other girls.
Venice’s response to smelly vagina
Go take a bath and shower and get yourself clean and fresh. Rub yourself between the creases where your thigh and crotch meet. Smell your fingers. Rub around your clitoral hood and around your clitoris. Smell your fingers. Rub your finger over your lips, let your fingertips get moist. Rub down around your hole and taint. Smell yourself. That is what he smells. Or you could just outright masturbate and smell and taste yourself when you are done. Whatever floats your boat!
If you feel this type of “smell test” is gross, then maybe having someone go down on you when you find it gross yourself isn’t a good idea. Your body, or smelling yourself isn’t gross. It’s also not something you should be ashamed of. Men really love it when you aren’t afraid of your own body. In fact, I’d say most men get turned on when a woman is eager to smell and taste herself off their penises after they have been inside us. Personally, I would not suggest smelling your panties, as you sweat throughout the day and our clothing isn’t an accurate representation of what we smell like when we are “fresh.”
If all is well, you should have no real odor or taste.
Ryan’s response to smelly vagina
Venice answered the basics, let me take this response somewhere else.
A lot of times guys say things to impress women because they think it raises their stock. Ladies, have you ever figured out what type of math your last boyfriend was using on his penis size to get himself to 8 inches? I mean, that is what he said his size was when he met you right? Judging by every ruler you have ever seen, it looked more like 5 or 6 inches huh? Men say things to impress women, and this is nearly universal. I have read comments from men that claim they love to eat a woman out more than they love to orgasm themselves. Although this may not sit well with a few of these white knights, I call bullshit. It may be true the first night, but once he gets enough pussy, gets comfortable that he is a permanent fixture in your life, all that mumbo jumbo is out the window. This is the type of language men use to impress women. Don’t get your pitchforks out yet though ladies, you say things to raise your stocks too!
Your boyfriend probably loved eating pussy, especially when he wasn’t getting pussy and he wanted your pussy! I mean, I’d love to be Venice’s panties for the rest of my life if I saw her walking by and she had never said a word to me. I’d turn around and just say to myself, “I would just love to be her panties and I could die happy. But realistically, after I have experienced her and she loves me, would I really want to be her panties? Nah, I prefer being a human and not a pair of panties. They way we talk and think before we get inside you is a lot different than how we think and talk after. Sometimes were kind of one track minded.
If you do your own smell tests and your vagina tastes and smells fine to you, this may very well be a case of your boyfriend saying whatever he thought would impress you and turn you on. Once he realized how much work it is to give a girl proper oral sex, the jaw soreness, the stick neck, the awkward position, and yes the intimate smell and flavors or a woman’s body, he may have changed his mind. A lot of lazy lovers say a lot of things, but really just want to get their nut as fast as possible. If your boyfriend is a generous lover, and liked eating a girl out the way he said he did, he would have a better explanation for you. Sit him down and find out the real issue. If you are mature enough to lay down and get inside each others bodies, you should be mature enough to sit down and get inside each others minds and find out what the issues are.
Sex and Toast
He stuck a gun inside me during sex. Did he go to far? 
Communicate with him and let him know that you are not cool with having guns shoved up your vagina. I noticed that you said him shoving objects in you doesn’t turn you on. Sometimes when people are disinterested, but still let their partner do things to them, they try to communicate or “teach” their partner that they are not “turned on” by certain things by having no real reaction or showing disinterest. This is not how you communicate. In their minds, they think showing disinterest will lead to him not wanting to explore his kink or do that type of thing again. Showing disinterest will not be good for either of you. If you were showing interest, he probably wouldn’t try to shove something in you that would shocked a reaction out of you. It may just be a cry for attention, or an angry attempt at showing you that if you don’t care what is in your vagina, then he doesn’t either. Not saying he is right in what he did, because he is not. I am just trying to figure out why he would shove a gun in you. I think getting any type of response was his goal. He got it. A gun seems to be an “angry object.” As a man, I get the thrill of it, but part of the thrill for me is Venice accepting it. Maybe make an agreement that prior to sticking things inside you he lets you know what it is. This seems safer than playing dildo Russian roulette with your back turned waiting to find out what the object he decides to shove inside you is until after he pulls it out. It also may help that you show more interest in his kinks and maybe react to his ideas or his excitement in seeing things slide inside you. Being passive aggressive and unenthusiastic is one of the biggest factors in ruining a sex life. Pay attention to what he is sliding in you. Show enthusiasm towards his excitement. If you were watching, you would have said “no” as soon as he touched his gun.