Project: Asian Bush – Growing Out My Bush in Photos

Project: Asian Bush – Growing Out My Bush in Photos

When I first announced that I was thinking about growing out my bush as my next sexblogging.com project, I immediately received a lot of flack from visitors to our site.  The response to the idea was almost funny, because a few people E-mailed us almost begging me not to ruin my body.   The E-mails expressed how much they hated how the bush on a woman looked, how it was gross, how it was unclean, and how they would never be attracted to any woman who had a hairy snatch.

First, I’d like those upset followers to know the bush is not going to be permanent.  I will not be tattooing myself with genital hair that can never be removed.  I also promise you that I will shower daily and keep myself as clean as possible.   Unfortunately I cannot do anything about my snatch looking gross to you, but hopefully when I shave it off I will immediately be put back into the “ungross” category.

Why I Am Growing Out My Bush

I guess before I start I will try to explain why I thought the idea of growing out my bush would be fun to begin with.  I’ve notice online, and probably because of the laws in Japan that prohibit porn from showing the actual genitals, that a lot of Asian women have a bush.   I’d assume this is because if Japanese women did not have a bush, then their porn would show nothing.  Although the genitals are censored, the hair is not.  This would make pubic hair in the Japanese culture very important.  Even if a Japanese man is with his wife, obviously in real life there is no censor blur in front of her vagina, but since men have been conditioned to only enjoy the site of a pubic hair through porn and photos, why would he ask his woman to remove this aphrodisiac  (which we can now call an afrodisiac)? I believe the same can be said for the older generation here in the United States.  The younger generations seem to think that the bush is gross or unclean, while the older generations love and appreciate a hairy vagina.  When they grew up, all their porn had hairy women.   Their first experience was with a woman who had hair.  The bush was a sign of womanhood for them.   This lust and fetish doesn’t change because women in the 90s started shaving landing patches and bermuda triangles in their crotches.  Eventually, getting rid of any sign of hair and going completely bald eagle.   Some men absolutely love a thick bush, and I can respect that.

The Asian Girls and their Hairy Bush

Before you judge Asians as a non-evolving culture regarding pubic hair, think of the times you have seen pubic hair in an American movie.  Full frontal nudity is still rare, but when it does raise its head, the female actresses always seem to have hair.  The hair represents nudity without it being labeled as pornography.  It represents the taboo of the revelation in American cinema.  Conversely, in almost all American X-rated movies, the adult film stars have their pubic hairs shaved off (which has become an accepted norm) making it easier to see the details of dicks and pussy in action.

The History of the Bush and Pubic Hair

The history and the importance of why humans have pubic hair is unknown, but a lot of people suspect it has to do with the pubic hair helping to retain the natural pheromones produced by glands to entice the opposite sex.  Before you shrug off the idea that we actually need a reason to attract the opposite sex, try to understand that animals do go in “heat.”  Smells released from the female body attract the opposite sex (cats & dogs for example), and the male will know it’s that time.   Although we are not cats or dogs, the concept remains.  As noted in an article written by Dr. Kristie Leong:

A thick patch retaining a woman’s natural pheromones makes sense.  According to some theories, animals and people are attracted to members of the opposite sex who have pheromone scents that are distinctly different from their own. This reduces the risk of inbreeding, which could produce offspring with genetic defects. Pubic hair helps to trap these volatile scent molecules, which are quickly broken down when exposed to air.

I personally find myself attracted to Ryan’s underarms, which I kiss and lick each morning.  I also know my underarms drive Ryan insane.  I’ve watched him sniff and lick under my arms (when I do not get ticklish) and get the hardest erections I have ever seen.  I also will notice at times when we are having sex, he can cum almost immediately if I lift my arms up and let him smell my pheromones.  This isn’t just some article I read, this is my own experience.

I have heard of other reasons for pubic hair which I may not agree with, but I suppose are worth noting.  It is said that rough hairs in the pubic region help protect the delicate tissues of the genitals.  This would explain why the pubic hair is unlike the hair on your head.  I am unsure about this theory, as I let Ryan beat my thing up to the point of no return, and within the next few days my “delicate” skin is back and ready to fuck.  Hair or no hair, my vagina doesn’t feel more protected from the large penis going in and out of my body.   Since I wear clothing and do not walk around nude, I will never know if the bush protected women, or kept them warm when they didn’t have much clothing.   I assume the same would be said for the bush being this great protector.  I’ve heard that the bush helps keep harmful particles out of the vagina (an argument I’ve heard in defense of actually keeping a bush — people’s misconception of the lack of bush being “cleaner”).  Since we wear clothing, again, my vagina is protected from whatever harmful particles it needs to be protected against.   I am not a big fan of these reasons for keeping your pubic hair, but nonetheless, they are different theories worthy of this blog.

Less so now, but prior to civilized times,  pubic hair would also be a sign for a male to know a woman is ready to reproduce.   Pubic hair is a sign of puberty, which is also a sign a woman is fertile.  For that reason, girls with pubic hair are no longer girls, but women.  This concept is not too far fetched as Ryan has also told me that he cannot wait to see my pubic hair in all its glory.  He has also said that when he grew up, a shaved vagina was unheard of.  A real woman had hair.   All the porn he had seen, which wasn’t much, but the same dumb little VCR tape him and his siblings hid from their parents, had nothing but 70s porn stars, all full of hair.   This was the most sexual thing he had ever seen, and these women, hair and all, definitely turned him on.  Not to mention, he has told me all the movies in the 80s never showed genitals.  The only way “nudity” in a movie was either breasts, or a huge bush.  Unlike the younger generation that have no idea what it’s like to see bush in an 80s film (what do the films show these days?), Ryan loved it.   That love has definitely created a slight fetish, as he is excited as hell to see my thick Asian bush.

Enough with History, Let’s Get Into Growing My Asian Bush!

With all that said, let’s get back to the project at hand.  After a long and arduous adventure going from 25 straight days for our xxxmas pictures to 31 days of eating cum shots, we wanted to come up with something a bit easier.

Although the daily photo shoots were fun and Ryan and I got to spend a lot of time together, it was extremely tedious.  So in deciding our next project, we knew it had to be something that was  a bit less strenuous and didn’t take too much prep time. Fun, yet not exhausting. Finally I came up with the idea of growing out my bush.

The last time I had a bush was when I first Ryan.  That was many years ago and we had both forgotten what it looked like.  Growing up, I had a bush and that was that.  I never thought about shaving, trimming, or shaping it.  The first time I’ve seen myself truly clean shaven since puberty was after I met Ryan, about 6 months into our relationship.  Since then, I have never grown out my bush to its fullness, never going more than a week before shaving fully again.  I know from experience that the first day after I shave my skin gets very irritated.  In preparing for Day One’s picture, I shaved everyday for a week prior to February 1, 2013, the first day I will start growing my bush.  I did this in order to allow my skin to become less itchy, bumpy, and/or inflamed on the actual day of the the photo, and since I used a brand new razor this week I knew I would be more susceptible to cuts, nicks, and overall skin irritation.  Additionally, I used cocoa butter in the morning and evening to keep my skin soft and to lessen the appearance of chafed skin.  In my opinion, it has done an excellent job.  I expect that as my hair starts to grow in, I’ll experience major itching and prickling.

For the finished product, if I get one “you look like you got Buckwheat in a leg lock” joke, I know that I’ve succeeded.

Each week I will post my bush on my Twitter Page and add a photo of my growth in the gallery below.  On the final day (unless we end up loving the bush), we will post photos of me creaming up and shaving.

UPDATE: Project Growing my Asian Bush – Friday, March 8, 2013

I’m not gonna lie to you, folks: I miss being bald.  I have about 1/3 of an inch of hair since I first shaved a month ago.  This is the most hair I’ve had since…well, ever.  I cannot even remember what it feels like to have this much hair.  Judging from the amount of hair growth I currently have in the month since this project started, I think it’s safe to say that I’m going to be here for another two months. Before the start of this project, I predicted that it would take approximately three months. I came up with this number because several months ago I’d actually gone a week without shaving.

What I do know is that 1/3 of an inch is NOT a full bush for me.  How do I know?  Because I remember, at my peak, my loose hairs coming off as I ran my fingers through my hairs, examining them closely, and noticing they were closer to about 1 inch (fully extended and straightened out).  I remember wondering what the purpose of pubic hair being wavy and coarse was, and that clearly there is a specific purpose which your nether-hairs serve.  I came to the conclusion that the hairs seemed to act as Velcro, overlapping and using the neighboring hairs to latch on to, thus forming a barrier to protect the vaginal opening from dust, grime, lint, etc.   I don’t know if that’s how us ladies are built, but it sounds feasible.
 
Even with my hair at this current length, I can understand why most women prefer to be completely clean shaven.  I noticed last week that the hairs that were closer to my pussy hole absorbed a lot of lubrication (pussy juice, spit, etc.) that would otherwise be in direct contact with my skin is now caught in the carpeting.  Because of this, when Ryan’s cock goes in, the hairs come along with it.  Of course it’s not just the hairs going in, so if he goes in fast enough it will also take my lips and skin in that wouldn’t normally go in my hole.  If we’re not careful, this causes little tears and scrapes.  If it weren’t for the resiliency of the vagina skin, I’d be pissed at the fact I was constantly in danger of getting torn. Luckily for me (and Ryan) it usually takes about a day before the burning from the exposed skin is healed.  I don’t know how 80s porn stars did it.  I don’t know how anyone with an active sex life in this day and age STILL does it.
 

 

Update 2019?!  

No, I haven’t been letting it grow out for 6 years LOL.  I stayed completely shaved since that week 8 photo from 2013.  However, I have finally decided to go permanently natural. This seems to be extremely unpopular these days, but I enjoy how it looks and feels!   I am back to all natural and you can check updates of photos and my blog on the topic here.

Project 31: Days of Swallowing Cum Complete

One of our most popular projects that inspired various articles from mainstream magazines and websites.  With that attention we decided the attention was a bit much and removed the photos of the 31 days.  The gift and the curse.  Our apologies.  The archives are below:  

‘Project 31’  started with our Christmas photos, which was actually ‘Project 25’, as we shot a photo every day of December prior to Christmas.   Some were silly, some were dumb, some were scary, but most were sexy as hell.  During that 25 day period our brains circled on other ideas for month long photo shoots.   It isn’t something I’ve seen done in other blogs (although I am sure it has been), so it feels original, fun, and keeps us updating daily.  Our next Project 31 will be growing out Venice’s bush on camera.  Yes, she is Asian and has noticed all the internet porn sites filled with little Asian women and their little but extremely hairy vaginas.   I don’t think I have seen her with a hairy vagina except when we first met, she was young and still proud of her shapely bush.  I was already trimmed, so it didn’t take long for her to follow my lead.  She didn’t trim it, she got rid of it all.  And after her first shave, she never let it come back.  The beginning of the “even landing strips is too much hair,  get rid of it all” era.   There have been times where she may have had a slight trim, but the full Asian bush, she hasn’t had since her puberty growth.   That will also not technically be a Project 31, as we are planning to take a photo each Friday until we feel her growth is absolutely complete.   We will then possibly do a full photo shoot of her spread eagle with nothing showing, because her hair covers up everything, hah.  That’s the plan, but it may not work out that way.

However, that is way off topic.  Originally we planned to have Venice write THIS blog the last day of the month.  I think our intention was to see if her feelings towards a cum shot had changed or if she liked to swallow more.   It was a dumb plan because she never really had issues with swallowing to begin with, especially prior to this Project 31.  For the last year, Venice has made leaps and bounds with her attitude towards sex, swallowing, and trying new things.   She has gotten upset with me for even suggesting she doesn’t like the taste of my cum.  It actually offends her that I say that.  With that being said, I guess Project 31 taught ME something.   I shouldn’t feel bad for wanting to see my woman swallow me or enjoy my cum.  I admit, as a teenager I remember thinking that a woman shouldn’t have to swallow a guy, because her mouth isn’t equivalent to the paper towels or toilet paper I would clean up my sperm each night with.  Just because I meet a girl that is willing to do anything to please me, all of the sudden my sperm, which I had been dumping in the toilet for years, was something worthy of being swallowed and enjoyed?  I didn’t think so.  That was the beta-male in me.  The nice boy.  I have changed just as much as Venice has changed.

There were times the bad boy would come out in me, the alpha-male, and I would ask her to  swallow me as some sort of guilty pleasure.  I was still little boy minded and felt bad about my own desires.  I felt bad that I wanted to see her do things I once considered dirty and  selfish.  I remember fucking Venice roughly,  punishing her with my my body and talk..  I’d look down on her and tell her I am going to pull out and cum all over her face and in her mouth.  She would look up at me and moan that she couldn’t wait.   As I reached my orgasm I would pull out, and nicely aim for only her mouth.  Then, after my orgasm was complete, the animal inside me would quickly die off and I’d feel totally bad for Venice below me, mouth full of cum.  I’d nicely get off her and say, “You don’t have to swallow if you don’t want.”   She would then get up and spit it out in the sink.  Although she would swallow everytime I asked, the guilty pleasure was more guilt.  My desire to see her swallow me wasn’t worth this idea that she hated me for asking her to do it.

Although I am not the only one to blame for this behavior, Venice herself was still dealing with her own demons and reservations.  She didn’t have to spit it out, so when she did,  she herself showed me she would have rather spit it out than swallow.  She also started to hold the cum longer after our sessions, which I took as her waiting for me to let her know she didn’t have to swallow.  These actions  only confirmed my guilt and made both of us even more reserved.

This has changed with day 31.  For Venice it seemed to change last year when she made this huge transation and became a what I consider a whole new woman.  Truthfully, I feel she transitioned from a young reserved girl caught up in an ego tug-a-war , to a confident woman who took back her identity by opening her mind and being the one in our relationship that is more receptive to new ideas.  Not only that, she embraced everything sexual and turned it into positive thing in her life, rather than negative.  The negative-to-positive transition can fix anything in my opinion.  Now, this new woman needs a real man.   I realize after Project 31 Days of Swallowing Cum, that I do not have to feel guilty for wanting to see my woman enjoy me.  I realize as a teenager I was wrong as hell.  I left my semen on paper towels because I didn’t have someone in my life worth sharing myself with.  My semen is an extension of me, and without my soulmate, there was no other place for it.  My cum wasn’t bad because I had to get rid of it, I had no other choice.  An orgasm is a special thing, and to be able to share it with someone makes it even more special. I have never been squimish or grossed out by my own cum, and if Venice wanted to kiss with my cum in her mouth, I would without hesistation, always.   The nice boy in me had his own reservations, but the man in me, who is still a nice guy, has put those behind him.  It’s not wrong to want to be wanted by a woman.  It’s not wrong to want to see her enjoy my body and fluids.   At this point in our relationship, I can’t even believe I ever asked her to spit me out.  I didn’t want to, but I felt bad.  I know better now.   Besides being a beta-male and passive on that certain issue, I was confused. Venice spitting out my cum would be like me going down on her and asking for a spit cup to spit in between licks, because I don’t want her in my mouth or body either.  That would be ridiculous.

Anyway, hopefully the blog readers enjoyed this Project 31:  Days of Swallowing Cum.  I will add the photo gallery to this post as well and unsticky the original.

PS:  I got caught up in my own thoughts and  I forgot to mention how glad I am this 31 days is over.  Truthfully, I didn’t enjoy grabbing the camera to take photos mid orgasm.   Usually I will hold my orgasm for 10 seconds before letting it all go and enjoying what follows.  I am also multi-orgasmic (like a woman, I can achieve multiple full orgasms without any breaks).  With the camera involved, I feel maybe 2 seconds of the cum feeling, stop whatever I am doing and grab my camera, pinch the tip of my penis, and focus the picture.  I then squeeze my dick (now already softening) and almost “pretend” to cum all over Venice for the camera.   The orgasm feeling itself was ruined because I never got to hold the intense feeling in as long as I could,  until it exploded on it’s own.     The cum itself is ruined because the longer you hold in the orgasm, the more fluid seems to come out when you do release.   The multi-orgasm is ruined because I am taking pictures and thinking about the quality of the shots.  This was 90% of the month for me.  Although I love Venice and appreciate what she did this month (she basically kept this Project 31 alive, because I remember being dead serious and suggesting we stop on day 9), I am glad it’s over.   I added thsi last part just to be totally open and honest in the blog, but even the worse 31 days with Venice, is something I’d prefer than the best 31 days with any other woman… and I mean that.

 

Fan Mail: Married 36 Years and Still Have A Great Sex Life

I would just like to say I came upon your site at Xhamster.com, and I really liked your videos, so I joined your blog. I think Venice is very sexy looking, and my wife loves  Ryan’s cock says it looks great. Just want to say “I need to see more videos from the both of you”. You now have a new follower.

P.S.
I love your thinking for the way u want to live your lives and marriage, we have been married for 36 yrs & still have a great sex life ( my wife finally tried anal sex for the first time five (5) years ago and loved it) trying new things really works to keep things going.

Love You both,

John

Thanks John, I am glad you enjoy the different blogs and videos we have created.   Ryan and I can only hope to one day say we have been married for 36 years.  Your an inspiration.

His Perspective On Her Anal Butt Plug Jewelry

plug-002Call this a review or whatever you want to call it, but my experience with the stainless steel butt plug so far has been amazing. Venice received her package in the mail, three separate stainless steel anal plugs, and immediately asked me to put the small one in. Before I knew it, Venice was asleep and in bed for night. I moved my body closer to hers and felt over her ass cheeks. She always sleeps totally nude, so I slid my hands over her pussy lips and ass hole, and felt she was still wearing her jewelry. It must be pretty comfortable.

In the morning she woke up me up in typical fashion, kissing me on my neck and whispering in my ears how much she loves me, licking under my arms, and sucking on my nipples. Before I could open my eyes, I felt her sucking and jacking off my total package. Somehow she managed to grab my balls and penis in one hand and was licking and stroking everything between my legs in one motion. I had never really felt that before, so I opened my eyes and looked down at her, but she didn’t notice because she seemed to be enjoying her new technique as much as me. She’ll probably blog about it.  🙂

As the minutes pass, knowing we both have to be at work soon, I feel her deepthroating me, which tells me she is either done for the morning or lubing up my penis to sit on it. Thankfully, this morning it was the latter. As she sat up on me and grabbed my penis, I felt my dick slide inside her. However, today something felt a bit different. She is Asian so naturally she is very tight, but this morning, I could really feel my dick struggling for room inside her. I begin to move a bit faster because I do not like the competition my dick seems to be in – I want all of her pussy to be mine. No matter how much I stroke, I can feel this bulging feeling on the underside of my penis, almost trying to push me out of my girl’s vagina. I realize pretty quickly it is the butt plug, and instead of fighting for room, I start enjoying the idea of her ass being full of an object while I fuck her pussy. What’s even more amazing to me is this is the very small plug, so I cannot wait to see what it feels like as she moves up in size.

How it looks wearing it during the day.
How it looks wearing it during the day.

As I am fucking Venice, I begin to talk dirty about the idea of DP (double penetration). Not that this would turn me on, as I have no need to ever see or feel my woman get fucked by another man, but the feeling is so intense on my dick, the idea overcomes me. I ask her if she would like to feel her body full of dick, knowing she is pleasing two men at once, or maybe even three men if she is deepthroating as well. Her body, so powerful that she could get three other bodies to orgasm all at the same time. She moans, and answers, she never wants to be with another man, but the idea turns her on so much. Her pussy is soaking wet at this point, I almost can’t feel the anal plug anymore, other than this slight thud on my dick head as I pass by the area it rests at in her anus. She moans that she wishes she had two more of me, so she could please me with every hole at the same time. I moan with her as she begs me to sit up and get behind her so I can see the jewel sticking out of her ass as I pound her pussy. I immediately hop up and begin fucking her doggy style. Now the jewelry is thumping on the other side of my penis, and the harder and faster I move, it seems my penis no longer can hit a “stride.” If I pull out a little too much, like we normally do, her vagina hole immediately closes and my penis slides underneath her body rubbing past her clit. This toy demands room. I pull the toy out and look at her hole immediately tightens back up. I slide my head over her ass and let it slide inside her. She moans, loving the feeling of real flesh inside her ass compared to hard, stainless steel. I notice that her ass is much more loose and easy to penetrate. I love it. I get my dick about a third of the way in before stopping. I enjoy the feeling but notice she tenses up a bit as my dick gets deeper. I lean down and kiss her neck and whisper, “We will finish tonight.”

This isn’t anything new, as our blog Our Morning Ritual explains our morning routine.  We spend time together in the morning to enjoy each other, to live in the moment, to not regret or underappreciate what we mean to each other. The orgasm, although a great feeling, can almost take away from the meaning of our mornings. If our goal is to cum, we may talk dirty, get rough, and cheapen the moment by getting this feeling we are using each other just to get off (some women feel a man only hugs or kisses on her, just to get sex — vice versa). If I am getting oral sex or we are fucking each other, not to orgasm, but to enjoy each other as much as possible without trying or even thinking about cumming, it seems to emotionally attach us much more. We both know we can orgasm together at night, so there is no need or urge to move our intimacy into a desperate sex mode, to get our cums off while we can just in case we do not get the chance in a few more days. We make sure we have our chances, daily. This works for us, although very much off topic.

As Venice got ready for work, we both agreed she should move up to the medium size plug, as it seems like the perfect size for preparation. She also didn’t really get too much pressure from the smaller size. She enjoys anal sex just as much as vaginal, so her anus is used to the pressure. She sent me a message this morning saying the medium size one is definitely more noticeable but makes her feel extremely sexy. It will also make penetration in her ass tonight much easier. However, I am unsure about how her pussy will feel. I am excited to try both. I love the idea of fighting for room inside her. She loves the idea of knowing she loves it in the ass. You don’t wear butt jewelry if the idea of anal sex isn’t something you are totally infatuated with.

As I was about to leave for work, Venice kissed me and asked me to think about this: “A woman with a strapon in one hole and your dick in the other.” I smiled. She devilishly grinned and followed up with, “That is the only DP I ever want.”

Dang.

Piercing My Penis – Frenulum Piercing

Notice the metal ball placement on Ryan's penis
Notice the metal ball placement on the penis

Piercing My Penis – Frenulum Piercing

A frenulum piercing is a type of body piercing located on the underside of the shaft of the penis. A series of parallel frenulum piercings is known as a frenum ladder. A frenum ladder may be extended to include lorum piercings, hafada piercings and guiche piercings.

Frenum piercings generally require from two to five weeks to heal fully. Depending on the placement it may be a surface piercing, but due to both the vascular, fast healing nature of the penis, and loose nature of the skin in that area, frenum piercings rarely reject if pierced properly, although they may migrate.

Those wishing to stretch this piercing to accommodate larger gauge jewelry should wait until at least two weeks after the initial piercing has fully healed. It is common for a frenum piercing to start to close soon after the jewelry has been removed. A fairly recent piercing may start to close in less than an hour. Temporary removal and replacement (for example, to accommodate a partner who finds it uncomfortable) may mean reinserting with a smaller gauge and then restretching to get back to the original, larger gauge. This tendency for the piercing to close up will diminish over time.

 That was boring.

Anyway, for those of you reading the blog, in the past I have pierced my lip, tongue, nipple, guiche, penis in multiple areas, ears, and nose.  Which piercings do I have left?  My penis and nipple, and although I do not wear them, my ears still have their holes.  I suppose my tolerance is a bit higher than most, but the frenum piercing was by far the easiest.  I barely felt any pain and had sex the same night it was pierced.  Although I would not advise anyone to do that, because the new piercing can become infected with the bacteria and whatever else is inside your woman.  I didn’t get infected though.  Thank you Venice’s pussy.

Pros and Cons of Piercing My Penis – Frenulum Piercing

Notice how the metal ball moves
The metal ball moves perfectly to the tip.

So let’s go into the pros and cons of this piercing.

With the right jewelry this piercing can feel great while receiving a handjob or masturbating.   In the pictures I have posted with this blog, the metal ball placement can move up and down.  Each area the ball hits is highly sensitive, at least for me.  Both areas are my preferred spots when a woman licks my penis.   As a woman strokes you, the piercing jewelry will slide back and forth, tapping each spot.  The more aggressive the handjob, the more aggressive the balls bounces back and forth.

A playful woman can also enjoy the piercing.   Whether it be sucking on it or tangling it with her own tongue piercing, it adds a new dynamic to oral sex.  A woman can lick around it, move the piercing with her mouth, or just enjoy the new texture the piercing creates, whether it is in her mouth of vagina.   You may also find her fondling you through the night, rubbing the piercing and penis.  It’s aesthetic.  You may be the only man she has ever seen with a pierced penis, so she especially enjoys it

If you don’t have a large cock and consider yourself “average” in size, a piercing can set your penis apart from the rest of the pack.  Imagine a girl flirts and playfully asks about your penis.  Unless you are hung like a horse, the only other interesting thing you can say about it is that it’s pierced.  It creates an immediate interest.  Whether she likes the idea of a pierced penis or not, she now wants to see it.

Venice gets no real physical effects from my piercing, other than it hurts.  It feels like it scratches and tears her insides, but I have heard from other women who claim they absolutely love the feeling.  I have not experienced this though, as my penis piercing as done nothing for Venice physically.  All the pros mentioned above are the reason I kept it, because although Venice doesn’t like the feeling, she loves how it looks.  However, I have started taking the piercing out during any sexual activity (which will eventually lead to getting rid of the piercing).  As of 2017, I no longer have this piercing because it became too much of a burden to remove it prior to oral sex or anal. 

The cons are very simple.  If your partner deepthroats, she would definitely rather their be absolutely no piercings on your penis.   Venice doesn’t just deepthroat, she is an absolute cock freak when it comes to oral sex.  With that said, she prefers no piercing.   The piercing is worrisome. No piercing is worth Venice not being able to do what she wants with my penis.

Another huge con for us, no anal sex.  I am sure there are people out there doing this, but the anus is not a vagina.  The skin is not as durable, and a lot of times if you are not well lubed, a penis without a small metal object can tear up an ass.   Imagine what a penis with a piercing can do.  No anal, not if you are smart at least.

Being that our sex life consists or regular anal and oral sex, most of the time I no longer wear my penis piercing.  Really, at this point, the only thing it’s good for is a picture.   Speaking of, I have added a gallery below.

Different penis piercings:

Ampallang, Apadravya, Hafada, Foreskin, Deep shaft, Dolphin, Dydoe, Frenum, Frenum ladder, Lorum, Magic cross, Prince Albert, Reverse  Prince Albert, Transscrotal

Image gallery of Penis Piercing – The Frenulum

For a more in-depth look at all the pros and cons.  We have created a new blog on the topic, The Pros and Cons of Piercing Your Penis