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Cuddle Positions – Back Pillow

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The Back Pillow position can be done by either person.  Using the persons back and butt to rest on is comfortable and soft.  

Pros & Cons
+ Fairly comfortable position for both. 
+ Breasts rest on the man’s ass and balls.  

Feet will hang off the bed.  


 

Why is Cuddling so important?

When you cuddle with someone you care about, your body releases a hormone called oxytocin that calms you and makes you more likely to deal better with stress.  Cuddling also has a large connection with being nurtured.   It has been shown through research that cuddling helps an infant develop an attachment to his/her parent.  This is instinctual and as you grow older, adults can cuddle to form this same attachment.  Cuddling has also been shown to boost an infant’s oxygen levels, calm its breathing, and ease pain signals. And for an underweight baby, it raises survival chances by more than a third. It helps the brain grow and makes infection and other illnesses, like hypoglycemia or hypothermia, less likely.   This is why we love to cuddle.   

Benefits to our bodies from cuddling

  • Ease Stress
    • When you cuddle with someone you care about, your body releases a hormone called oxytocin that calms you and makes you more likely to deal better with stress. 
  • Helps Your Heart
    • It’s good for your heart.  Cuddling lowers blood pressure. Scientists say it’s clearer that women get this benefit from cuddling, but it seems to be true for both sexes.
  • Relieves Pain
    • A good cuddle may give you more than just moral support after an injury. The oxytocin cuddling releases can help block pain signals. 
  • Fight Colds
    • Too much stress effects the immune system.  Hugs from people you trust may protect you against this common virus, especially if you’re under a lot of stress. And if you’re already sick, more cuddling might keep your symptoms from getting worse.
  • Connects You to Your Partner
    • Oxytocin is sometimes called the love hormone.  Whether having sex, cuddling, touching, dancing, or holding hands, your body is releasing oxytocin.  Couples who cuddle and kiss freely tend to be happier, healthier, and less stressed.
  • Helps You Sleep
    • Oxytocin is the key ingredient again. Because of oxytocin calming effects, it relaxes you and helps you sleep.

Benefits to cuddling your partner

  • Cuddling improves satisfaction in relationships. 
    • In an experimental study, increased cuddling for married couples resulted in statistically higher relationship satisfaction. This finding was particularly notable as the couples who increased their cuddling behaviors were compared to couples who increased time spent together over mealtimes and those who did not change their behavior.
  • Cuddling helps maintain focus on your partner. 
    • In the same study, with increased cuddling, the focus is honed in on our romantic partner as opposed to thinking “what else is out there?”
  • Cuddling releases oxytocin and promotes positive emotions. 
    • Affectionate touch behaviors release oxytocin.  Oxytocin is a natural love hormone that helps us feel closer to our partners. When we cuddle, we feel a surge of positive emotions such as love, adoration, and trust. While cuddling typically occurs around sexual activity, it is perceived to be a nurturing type of behavior rather than a sexual one.
  • Cuddling after sex benefits your relationship. 
    • In a longitudinal study, the duration and quality of post-sex affection including cuddling are related to greater subsequent reports of relationship and sexual satisfaction.  Couples can use this time to be close to each other physically and emotionally, sharing their thoughts and feelings, or not saying anything at all.

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Threesome Sex Positions – Step Child

If one of your partners is being naughty, treat them like a step-child.   This position can be fun for the person in the back, since you have two people bending over ready to be serviced by you.  You can also put a strap-on on a woman and bend everyone over for a turn.   Adding a strap-on with any position we share allows for every position to be interchangeable.

 

Difficulty Level
Beginner:  Basic threesome position

Pros & Cons
+ It’s fun to have someone in your lap, with another person in your face.
+ The naughty partner gets stepped on and disciplined.

 


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Threesome Sex Positions – Pile Driver

This is the only position during a threesome where I was able to cum from another woman eating me out.   The girl getting fucked is really being pounded from the back which forces her to eat pussy in a sexual rhythm.  Besides the flicking of the tongue, the woman can literally feel the movements of sex in her clit.   This is a great threesome position that everyone should try.  It is not necessary for the guy to be standing, he could be behind her normal doggy style.  However, the standing is why we call it a pile driver, because the force is much more intense due to the squatting position.  As with most positions, you could add a strap-on and any partner can take each position.

Disclaimer:  Although every position could be performed with two men and a woman, 3 men, or 3 women, our threesome sex positions we illustrate are focused on ffm threesomes, because these are the threesomes our blog and us as a couple have experienced.

Difficulty Level
Beginner:  Basic threesome position

Pros & Cons
+ The woman being licked can actually feel the movements of sex through the other girls mouth
+ Comfortable position for the woman on her back to orgasm


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Threesome Sex Positions – Ferris Wheel

Much like the Fidget Spinner, this is a great position for everyone to taste test each other.   It doesn’t matter who gets what position, you will get to taste and be tasted.

Disclaimer:  Although every position could be performed with two men and a woman, 3 men, or 3 women, our threesome sex positions we illustrate are focused on ffm threesomes, because these are the threesomes our blog and us as a couple have experienced.

Difficulty Level
Beginner:  Basic finishing position

Pros & Cons
+ Great position for all involved.  Tasting and being tasted. 


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Threesome Sex Positions – Underdog

The Underdog is probably the first position most couples try when having their first threesome.   It’s easy to get situated and it feels great.  Each person in this position can also be spoiled The view for the man is orgasmic.  Seeing a woman bent over with her ass up in the air and the other woman’s face below her putting whatever she can in her mouth is exciting as hell.

Disclaimer:  Although every position could be performed with two men and a woman, 3 men, or 3 women, our threesome sex positions we illustrate are focused on ffm threesomes, because these are the threesomes our blog and us as a couple have experienced.

Difficulty Level
Beginner:   This position is usually the first position most people try when having a threesome

Pros & Cons
+ This position gives the man a euphoric sensation of his balls being licked while feeling the inside of another woman’s vagina
+ The woman on bottom can also make the woman cum by focusing on her clit with her tongue while she is being fucked by the guy
+ The girl on top can make the woman on bottom cum through oral sex
+ A dripping cream pie or pulling out and cumming in the bottom girl’s mouth are both fun options

 


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