Give your man a female’s orgasm.
I don’t want to really label orgasms, but ladies, most of us know that we can put a vibrator up to our clitoris and it doesn’t take long for the magic to happen. When we were young it started with us exploring our naughty region with a finger and slowly circling our clits. If that went well, we felt a natural tingle sensation deep inside our bodies, we started breathing a bit harder, our skin got flush, and out of no where we would tense up and convulse. From the beginning of our sexual exploration, our orgasms centered around our clits. Fellas, eventually we taught you to make your tongues center around our clits as well.
Men, slow down, take off your pants, let us grab our vibrators, and allow us to give you the same orgasms we have grown to love.
Ladies, learn your man’s frenulum. This is a popular spot for a man to have a piercing, because there are so many nerve endings in this area. Ryan had his frenulum pierced and said it made sex and stroking his penis much more pleasurable. However, we had to remove it because deepthroating, anal, and sex in general didn’t feel safe to me. Especially in my throat.
Anyway, imagine your clitoris for a second. If you are bisexual and have explored another woman, then this shouldn’t be a problem. If you have not been with another woman, grab a mirror and explore yourself! If that’s a little too bold (you are reading a sex blog, just go grab a dang mirror girl!), search google images for close ups of a woman’s clitoris. Our clitoris resembles a small penis glans, with the same helmet shape, except tiny. Well, for me, when a tongue flicks right underneath the clit and not directly on it, this is where I get the most pleasure. The frenulum on a man’s penis is equivalent to that spot.
This is the spot you will rub against the vibrator. He may never achieve an orgasm with this method, because although it feels good, his instincts will be to move the vibrator out of the way and start stroking himself. This is the way his brain is wired to orgasm. New methods may frustrate him at first because he is conditioned to orgasm from specific stimuli. Sometimes frustration can be sexy, especially when you want to tease him. If you are a playful couple, I’d suggest tying his hands up. This will insure that no matter what he feels, he is forced to focus on what you are giving him rather than using a cheat code and grabbing his own penis to finish himself. I’ve learned that dirty talk should be kept almost ASMR, to relax and help him focus on what he is feeling. I can relate, because when I was first learning to orgasm, Ryan had to stay still and make subtle movements. It wasn’t until later I was able to have orgasms where his powerful movements actually helped me reach my climax
If he does orgasm, ask him if he enjoyed it and how it felt. I have heard that this type of orgasm is comparable to a prostate orgasm in men. A lot of focus and sensations felt are inside their bodies, much like with our orgasms, so it creates a more intense experience. This may also give him a better understanding of what we feel when we circle our clits while they are fucking us. Or what we feel when we play with a vibrator together. Much like he has to focus and get lost inside himself, sometimes we do as well. Ladies, have you ever tried to orgasm and the guy is so busy that it throws you off? Sometimes it’s good to let us get lost in a sexual mediation-like state to find our orgasms. This could help him understand this.
For the record, there are other spots you could use the vibrator on, such as right under the balls in his guiche and taint area. You could also use the vibrator inside his anus while slowly milk his penis. Personally, I’d stay away from the front 
area of the glans of his penis, because it can be painful and make him too sensitive to orgasm. From the feedback I have gotten, putting the vibrator directly on the glans can make his penis extremely sensitive. Much like pulling back our clitoris hood and putting a vibrator directly on the tip of our clits.
Either way, explore with your partner and find out what he or she likes. Sex and masturbation can be enjoyable, but also a learning experience. Fuck, orgasm, and learn together.
A man’s perspective on reaching an orgasm with a woman’s technique.
Ryan: First, let me reiterate, be very careful when you rub the vibrator on the front of our glans. This area is extremely sensitive, especially when we are not fully turned on and immediately after we cum. I’d compare the pain to living death. I especially wouldn’t want this type of massage with my hands tied up. However, some guys may enjoy it. Communicate with your partner and make sure you both understand each others limitations. Otherwise, I really enjoy the use of a vibrator in our sex play.
When Venice uses a vibrator on my penis, it’s a whole new sensation. We don’t do it much because it’s extremely hard to achieve an orgasm this way. It’s even harder to almost reach the breaking point and not be able to just grab my dick and pull it as hard as I can until I cum. Much like an orgasm with just the prostate, it takes patience and can really feel like a roller coaster of ups and downs. Unlike stroking or having sex, the vibrations are centered in one spot. This naturally makes me want to grind my penis up against the vibrator, much like a woman will grind against her hand. I also want to play with my nipples to get as much extra sensation as I can get. If she finds the right spot, right below my head where I was pierced, it almost feels like my whole cock begins to get warm. The vibrations go down to the core of my penis (the prostate) and I feel the familiar orgasm feeling building up inside my body. Because I am not stroking or inside her, I don’t feel anything except my body’s reactions. Sometimes she can lift up the vibrator off my dick and I will feel a tingling sensation over my whole cock, down my balls, and deep inside my prostate. I only get this sensation from a vibrator. Much like when you put your arm outside of a car window while driving. If you pull it back inside the window, you will notice your arm is numb from the air vibrating the hairs on your arms.
If everything goes right, can actually feel my prostate filling up with semen and getting hard. This sensation makes me just want to grab my dick and stroke. It’s borderline torture, laying there trying to turn these vibrations that shake the core of my dick, and let the orgasm build slow until my body breaks and I release cum all over myself. As crazy as this sounds, it’s crazier that a woman can feel this same sensation and doesn’t have the reflex to grab her penis and stroke. I do wonder if women feel this and want to feel something pushed inside them. Just that little extra sensation can make it so much easier to reach my breaking point.
If I stay still long enough, my orgasm will happen. And although all orgasms are good, these are special because of the build up. I wouldn’t say they are my best orgasms, but they are satisfying in a way I cannot really explain. Much like prostate orgasms, sometimes I am just excited that I actually came from a totally different type of stimulation that I am used too.
For further information regarding piercing your frenulum, please check out Ryan’s blog about his frenulum piercing and all the advantages and disadvantages.