When I first met Venice we were both pretty inexperienced sexually, but still eager to try everything we had ever seen or thought about. I remember being embarrassed to ask her if she would ever lick someone’s ass. Of course she gave me the craziest look I had ever seen and said she’d never do that. Moment later I hinted that I understood how a woman wouldn’t lick a guys ass unless she was really into him anyway. She immediately switched from “reality” to “woman mode” and asked, “Do you want me to lick yours?”
When I say “woman mode,” I mean, women survived when it was “survival of the fittest” by using their “fit” minds. They know how to adapt. They know how to please. They know how to manipulate men to make sure they have protection without the muscle. They know how to figure out what the guy they are courting wants and immediately shut off anything they previously thought and open their mind to his ideas.
I remember Venice bending me over the bed and spreading my cheeks. She looked at my ass hole and immediately commented, “It looks like a balloon.” I have no idea why, but we both laughed. Young and in love, the girl I never thought I could get to like me, way out of my league, had me bent over in front of her as she studied my ass hole. She stuck her tongue down in my crack and circled her tongue around the rim of my anus. I remember feeling almost like a newborn baby cub being totally taken care of by it’s mother. I know it sounds silly, but this safe feeling turned me on more than anything I had ever felt. The concept isn’t foreign, as I had read that men love sucking on women’s breasts because it makes us feel safe and secure, like a newborn baby breastfeeding from it’s mother. It brings us back to a time when all we had to do was be held close and everything was going to be alright.
Anyway, from the beginning Venice prided herself in doing everything I had ever wanted, and of course, I wanted oral sex. The problem? No-one had ever made me orgasm from oral sex. My only experience prior to her, was a few oral sex situations.
Venice knew this so she made it her mission to make me orgasm through a blow job. She made sure to tell me I was not going to get sex of any kind until she could make me cum through fellatio. I remember laying in her bed with my pants off totally exposed to Venice, watching her suck my dick. I was so embarrassed and shy. I was also scared because I was in her bedroom and her parents could come home at any time. The visuals were beautiful though, but I just didn’t feel any orgasm build up and no matter how much she sucked or how hard she tried, it just wasn’t working for me. For days Venice would pull my pants down in various locations and just go to work on my penis. I remember being in a Toy R Us parking lot, windows foggy, watching Venice in my lap trying to get me to cum. Because we were young and couldn’t just go to her house with her parents there and practice blow jobs, Venice would drive me to various spots and give me oral sex. The park, the mall parking garage, the grocery store parking lot, the movie theater, or anywhere else she could find.
Eventually, her dad was out of town and her mom was working the night shift. She invited me over as soon as her mom left for work. I remember being in the living room on the couch and she didn’t even want to talk. She was excited and just pulled my pants off and started sucking my dick. We eventually moved up to her room so she could lay me on the bed. Then, before the end of the night she took me back downstairs to the guest room as her mom’s shift may end a bit early and she wanted me in the the safest room, not to get caught, in the house. The guest room was dark and I couldn’t see anything. I heard Venice’s mouth slurping and I felt horrible that she was trying so hard and I failed her again. I tried to stop her from going up and down and she reached up and aggressively pushed my hand away from her. I then pushed down on her head to get her away from my penis and she reached down and leveraged herself by grabbing onto my balls. As she grabbed my balls and pulled herself back onto my penis, I immediately felt something. She held onto my balls tightly to make sure I couldn’t push her away. The feeling of my nuts being grabbed released hormones and paralyzed me. I couldn’t move away from her because of her grip, and I finally felt the sensation of her mouth travel throughout my body. I didn’t say a word. I laid my head back and remember feeling my face flush and go completely numb.
I hadn’t came in so long because she made me promise not to even masturbate until she made me orgasm with oral sex. Although I could have lied and masturbated anyway, I didn’t. I like to keep me word and I promised her I wouldn’t release myself until she did it for me with her mouth. At the time, I had no idea it would take so long, so many locations, and so many days.
I remember feeling this rush of fluid break through my shaft. It was probably the strongest orgasm I have ever had. I felt like I was peeing in Venice’s mouth and no matter how many times my body twitched, my cum wouldn’t stop spilling out. I heard Venice moaning and gagging as she was trying to swallow everything that was pouring out of my dick.
I think I passed out. The feeling was so intense, after I came, we didn’t say a word to each other. I remember hearing a door open and Venice’s mother saying her name. I jumped up, her head was still in my lap. I pushed her head off me and ran around the dark room looking for my pants. Venice got up and left me in the room so she could talk with her mother. Although we didn’t get caught, those moments really set the attitude towards oral sex for the rest of our relationship.
We did oral sex as foreplay, because we both knew I could cum whenever I wanted during sex, in a minute or in an hour, depending on what Venice was in the mood for. But when it came to oral sex, it was going to be a journey.
Fast forward 17 years.
Our life has changed, our bodies have changed, and Venice no longer grabs my balls to keep her face in my lap. She now grabs them, rubs them, massages them, and pulls them because she knows it releases the chemicals in my body to help get me off during a blow job. It never takes days to finish, but they still easily could take up to an hour. Therefore, neither of us really go for the finish, and oral sex just became something sexy and fun to do prior to having sex. Although Venice had learned to deepthroat, and yes, deepthroating helped move my orgasm time down to 25 to 30 minutes, it still was a lot of work. It wasn’t that Venice didn’t embrace the effort, it was that I just felt awful. I could not be happy or comfortable watching Venice work so hard just to get me to orgasm. I had way too many orgasms in every position possible and it just wasn’t worth it for me. It wasn’t sexy to me. It wasn’t romantic to me. And maybe because of my first oral orgasm with her, I just didn’t see the need to press the issue. If it happened, it happened; however, I never asked to be finished. And not only that, the last thing I wanted was for Venice to feel getting me to orgasm is like work or a job. That absolutely leads to oral sex being something she didn’t look forward to and even bored her. That’s not what intimacy is about.
A few months ago, Venice was sucking my dick and using one hand to move with her mouth. It reminded me of all the porn videos I had ever seen and I commented how she looked like a sexy ass porn star. Being her playful self she reached down with her other hand and gripped the base of my penis. She then started moving both hands over my shaft and focusing her mouth on my upper shaft and head only. She then looked up and said, “How many porn stars are ambidextrous and can use both hands?” She twisted both in opposite directions and stroked my dick. She then pressed both hands together so the top of my shaft was exposed and start sucking my dick again. As she lifted her mouth off my dick she would take the hand on top and do a “polish the knob” motion. Literally, as her mouth came off my penis her upper hand would move up and over me head. I had never felt anything like it. Not only did it feel great, it made my dick look amazing.
How dumb is that? Does it matter that my dick looked amazing? For me it does. If a woman can make your dick look huge, that’s talent. Any girl can suck dick and not care, but a woman who can suck dick while at the same time give you the visual of having a huge cock, it turns into something greater. Seeing two hands on my cock while her mouth was sucking the top, gives the illusion that she is sucking off a telephone pole. And yes, this visual helps. Not only did it help, I wanted to actually record what she was doing.
I grabbed my phone and turned on the camera. I didn’t watch her any longer. I laid the camera on my stomach and just put my head back and relaxed. The orgasm feeling overwhelmed me so quickly, that before I knew it, I was cumming in her mouth. I looked down at my phone and saw the time said, 9 minutes and 50 seconds. I had never came so quickly from oral sex. I told her the time and she laughed and said she bets she could beat it.
The next time she went down on me I hit record on the camera and didn’t watch. My goal was to relax and just enjoy the feeling. However, she no longer was doing the same technique that got me off in 9 minutes. She was able to do something else with her mouth and hands that I had never seen or felt in my life. I am unsure if she is moving one hand completely and letting my penis stab the back of her throat, or she is doing something with her tongue, but she is making the same noises of how it sounds to face fuck / deep throat and at no point does my penis feel air. Every centimeter is being stimulated at the same time, with no breaks. When I ask her what she is doing with her mouth, she says, “Don’t worry about.” This time she broke her own record and got what she wanted in 6 minutes and 20 seconds.
For whatever reason I hopped on Twitter and announced that time and tweeted about the game me and Venice had been playing. Our goal was to reach under 5 minutes. The next time we tried I came in 5 minutes and 51 seconds, and this morning, I reached our milestone of under 5 minutes, 4 minutes and 56 seconds. The best part is, I asked Venice afterwards, “Did that feel like five minutes to you?”
She replied, “No, it only felt like a few minutes. Time was going so fast.”
And truthfully, that was my real goal. She can now be excited and truly enjoy giving oral sex to her man, rather than doing it just to please me because she wants me to protect her cave from all the other barbarians trying to eat her.
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