Threesome Memoirs: Table of Contents
I will be totally honest with you, I have no idea if this next prospect was a man or woman. For future references, I will just call it, Pat the Squirter.
Now, me calling Pat the Squirter a prospect is extremely misleading. It was never a prospect. It was actually one of the first persons I communicated with about the possibility of a threesome, and it never went beyond talking through a website, email messages, and yahoo messenger. I met this person, supposedly a single woman, on the swinging website I have mentioned multiple times in the past, swinglifestyle.com. Since it’s against that website’s TOS (Terms Of Service) to talk about different members of that website openly, I will not mention any real specifics.
Pat the Squirter was interesting indeed. She originally contacted me with pictures attached of her (or someone’s) vagina spread wide open and the sheets soaking wet. Within her first or second sentence of introducing herself, she asked, “You aren’t turned off by women who squirt right? Because I squirt all over. I can’t control it.”
She went on to talk about all the different locations she liked to meet up with couples in our city and all her favorite hotels. She’d talk about certain hotels where she had probably squirted on every comforter blanket in each room (Hampton Inn — stay away). She was proud of that. With each picture she sent she got nastier and more graphic. The bodies of the women seemed a bit different with every picture set, but I just assumed she was getting older or some of the pictures were from years ago. I also assumed, some women in this lifestyle live in their past or have pictures they love from years ago. Eventually she asked for some of my pictures and I replied, “I will need to call you for phone verification first.”
She then went into multiple reasons why should could never text or talk on the phone. Reason 1: She was in the process of a messy divorce and she would lose everything if she had random numbers on her phone records. Reason 2: She was from a rich family that is very known in the city we are from, and if word got out her family would disown her. She needed to make sure we didn’t know each other in real life before she spoke on the phone with me. Reason 3: She has moved out of her home and the lady she cares for monitors her very closely and gets annoyed by phone calls of any kind. Reason 4: She no longer has a phone and was going to pick up a cheap one when she got a chance.
Now, what exactly could she do? Well, apparently she could be on yahoo messenger and email 24 hours a day because once I gave out my information, she wouldn’t leave me alone. She claims she was being monitored closely, but she could sit at her computer all day and nothing could be traced (yea right). Truthfully, I set up my first yahoo messenger account just to talk with Pat the Squirter, because that is what she insisted on. I had one friend on yahoo messenger, her. After a few weeks of talking on y! messenger and hearing each of the different reasons why she couldn’t phone verify, I got tired of dealing with her. Unfortunately, she didn’t get tired of me.
She’s probably the first person I had to literally email block. Why? Because she was completely bat shit crazy and would not stop sending me messages. After I blocked her emails and y! messages, maybe a month or so later, I got a random message on yahoo from “hungandhandsom384039”, or some weird variation. Like with Pat the Squirter, this person would message me over and over for days, with no response. I had my notifications turned off, so when I finally did see all the missed messages, it didn’t take much for me to figure out the only other person on earth with my yahoo messenger name was, Pat the Squirter. Therefore, one could conclude that this new person, with a man’s name, was Pat. Did I ever ask? No. I blocked the other name as well and uninstalled yahoo messenger.
I eventually got to know a few other couples and singles off the same swinging website, and low and behold, each of them had the same exact story. Of course, Pat’s name changed per which personality she decided she was going to be, her story changed, her city changed, but the fact she was a squirter was pretty consistent. Her not talking to any of them on the phone was pretty consistent too. If I would bring up her account name to a few new friends, the first thing I would hear was, “Oh my god, don’t talk with her, she is crazy as hell.”
Was Pat the Squirter totally down to have a threesome? Yes. Was she totally down to do everything we wanted within our limits? Sure! Although she did tell me at one point, “All women say they want their men to have a limited role but as soon as I am ass up and naked in the hotel room, most women end up watching their husbands plow into me with their hard cocks, fuck me like a rabbit, and bury their balls in me as they try to cum as deep in my stomach as they can.”
I laughed, I blocked, and I learned one of my first lessons in opening up my bedroom to a possible stranger. Phone verification, phone verification, phone verification.
Pat, Bella (Bill), Carla (Carl), Donna (Don), whatever your name is… get help.
Let’s face it, most men are overly possessive and hyper sexual. I say that knowing that the majority of my readers are men. I also say that knowing my best friend, lover, and soulmate, is a man, and yes, he is also overly possessive and hyper sexual. For me, it’s a good fit. I can keep up with him sexually and the possessiveness makes me feel safe and secure. If he weren’t as possessive, I would feel unwanted. If he weren’t as sexual, I would feel unsexy and undesired. Like I said, for me, it works. For some women? It absolutely does NOT work.
The Bluetooth Truth Whisperer:
With every person that called I quickly learned that I would have a cast of wonderful characters for my blogs. I wasn’t trying to be insincere or judgmental, because my main goal was to find someone I really did click with. Unfortunately, to find that person you click with you have to shuffle through a lot of people that you have absolutely nothing in common with.
Yesterday Ryan and I were in the kitchen making homemade soft tacos and guacamole. He was in charge of the meat and I cut up all the ingredients for the guacamole. We drank a little, we laughed, we spent time together as a couple and bonded over good food. It was a great day.