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March 27, 2019

If Every Straight Hook Up Site Was Like Grindr The World Would Be A Better Place

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If Every Straight Hook Up Site Was Like Grindr The World Would Be A Better Place

I was browsing through Reddit and I saw a question regarding a guy who had decided to let his girl experiment with another girl while he experimented with another guy.  It was an interesting post and a few things about it really piqued my interest.  

My girlfriend recently came out and said she wants to have sex with women but no other man. As a result it got me to thinking, and I would like to have experiment with the same sex as well. However, we are very unsure of how to find people to experiment with. How do people find patient, understanding lovers to learn the ropes with when they’re the same sex? We’re at a loss as to how to proceed into the territory of homosexuality.”

The Difference Between Men and Women Hooking Up

I immediately thought to myself that there was a few things that was going to happen.  First, his girlfriend would have to spend a lot of time looking for what she wanted.  She would have to  sort through girls that really just want threesomes with their husband (admittedly,  she’ll be sorting through us), catfish/men pretending to be women hoping to pick up some stray and confused pussy, curious females that will never actually meet you,  stud females that act like men and want to pound your guts in with 10 inch dildos, and various other things that will be obstacles for her and her bisexual journey.  I’m not saying this is how it always is, but in our experience, it’s exactly how it was.  However, his experience will be quite the opposite.  By the time she hooks up with another female, he may have an anus that will appear visually similar to the grand canyon.  I am not joking either.  Men will be lined up ready to suck, fuck, and rearrange his back in ways a chiropractor could only dream of.   

Which is why the following comments were hilarious to me…because it’s true.

After getting through the comments I noticed the original author edited his question and added that she wasn’t being serious.  More specifically, she was not okay with him having sex with another man.

Update: So the gf is no longer comfortable with me seeking men and it seems like she’s using this whole thing as revenge for some beef we have in our past. I think I’m going to walk on this relationship seeing as how it is incredibly toxic at the moment. Thank you all for your help and I’m definitely still going to experiment in the future!

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March 20, 2019

Texting, Sexting, Distance, and Visible Communication Creates Stronger Relationships

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Texting, Sexting, Distance, and Visible Communication Creates Stronger Relationships.

We have a Question and Answer blog section that deal with couples questions and their various problems they have in their relationship.  We have learned that most of the time the biggest issue is a simple lack of communication.  Whether it be questions about anal, dildo size, threesomes, swinging, jealousy, or any other relationship issue, communication is the key to dealing with relationship issues.

Texting, Sexting, and Distance

From the beginning of our own relationship, college separated us.  As much as you’d think this was a bad start, I feel that our long distance relationship helped our relationship more than anything we have ever done.  With Ryan and I being on different coasts, we had to deal with jealousy, trust issues, sex, and everyday life, through communication and text (instant) messages.  We were unable to kiss and make up, fuck and make up, or ignore problems because of all the physical interactions that tend to replace actual communication.  Is there anything easier than ignoring compatibility and personality issues between two people because the sex is so good, it almost makes everything seem better?  That isn’t possible with distance.  Your words and thoughts are the only thing that matters.  Back then, texting wasn’t as common, but using your PC and AOL instant messenger was.  Each night Ryan and I would sit and talk about everything that happened in our day.  The good, the bad, the ugly.  Sometimes we would argue and block each other when we got upset.  Once blocked, the only way to really communicate would be for one of us to call the other.  Long distance wasn’t cheap, and as poor college kids, this was a big deal.  Sometimes I think we argued just to hear the other person’s voice for 10 minutes.   Eventually, we’d make up on the phone and tell the other to go back to their PC and so we could talk again.  Now that the argument for the night was over we’d feel the urge to connect and make up.  Much like normal relationships, we would start to sext back and forth and discuss various sexual ideas.

Make Up Sext

This form of communication made it extremely easy to explore our kinks.  I have learned over years, that being in the same room can make it harder to communicate.  As soon as you talk about your kinks, you get a bit frisky and want to get closer.  The more you touch, the sooner you find yourself nude with your legs spread begging for your man to cum inside you.  When you are done, you are both exhausted and sex is the furthest thing on your mind.  Instead you turn on your favorite show and hang out with each other.  As you get older, other things take place a television:  children, errands, cleaning, cooking.  Although you can obviously have good quality time while in the same room, it’s clear that physical interaction can interfere with communication.  With distance, that just isn’t possible.  Although we were both young and inexperienced, without being able to physically touch or get intimate, we would use our words and imaginations to turn each other on.  The things you learn about another person through spending time sexting, without the ability to let the physical world stop you from communicating, is mind blowing.  I fell head over heels in love with Ryan because of his words and mind.  In the process, I wanted to find out what made him happy, what made him horny, what he wanted from me that no other girl could ever give him.  This opened a Pandora’s box.  You learn each other’s darkest and deepest fantasies.  You also find out if your kinks and sex drives are compatible.  No skeletons are left in the closet.  To be honest, I didn’t even know people wanted to lick each other’s asses!   But after months and months of talking, I knew the first night I was back with Ryan, I was going to turn him over, spread his cheeks, and go to town on his ass hole.   Not only was it not weird anymore, I was excited.  That’s the power of communication. 

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March 13, 2019

Foursome Memoirs: The Silent Partner, Phone Sex, and Swingers

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This is possibly the shortest running memoir series we will have on this blog.   1 post.

So we have been members of  a swing lifestyle website for years but have never met anyone from this site.  In fact, we have probably been members for just as long as we have blogged.   We’ve heard that although we only hook up with women, it’s still technically considered part of the swingers lifestyle.   Most swingers do actively look for a bi female, also known as the unicorn.  This past week, things changed.   We spoke with a couple that was interested in having the wife spoiled by another couple.   They were both in their second marriage and had only been married for about 3 months.  Personally, we both thought this was too soon, but we didn’t mention it. It was stated up front that the other wife wasn’t comfortable with Venice and her husband hooking up, which was fine with us, because it isn’t something we do anyway.  The couple both spoke with us on Kik and talked about how they spent their honeymoon having a mmf threesome with the husband’s friend.   Kind of weird I guess, but whatever.  The husband talked a lot about how he is doing this for her, it’s all about her needs, and he is really just a silent partner that enjoys watching his wife pleased.  He said he was really excited to see her with another woman.

We decided that this couple may be a match for us.  Although we have never done anything with a husband/boyfriend in the same room, it does turn us on to think about having sex in front of another couple.  We also thought we’d enjoy watching another couple have sex in front of us.  In hindsight, this may not be a reality for us.  As a couple, we like to joke around, take things a little less serious, and we tend to use comedy as a way to deal with uncomfortable situations.   This would probably be a recipe for disaster when watching a horny couple getting it on in front of us.

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February 27, 2019

Q&A: Husband says I give the best blow jobs ever, but why did he cum with another girl in 2 minutes!?

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Husband says I give the best blow jobs ever, but when we recently had a threesome, he had an orgasm after 2 minutes of her sucking his dick.

When I give hubby a blow job it takes him forever to cum. I am talking 15-20 minutes. Yet I could get most others I have given blow jobs to cum in about 2-5 minutes. Fast forward to this past weekend and my husband got a blow job from this much fitter and much younger woman. He blew a huge load in like less than 2-3 minutes. I asked him later if she sucked cock better than me and he said absolutely no. I asked him why he came so quick and he said, “Baby your blow jobs feel so good I hold back on purpose.” I told him I want to see how quick I can get him off so he said “Okay.” Tonight he is getting greeted naked and getting unzipped immediately to see.

What is y’all experience on time?

Venice’s response to best blow jobs ever
If a man says a bj is so good that he holds back on purpose, he may be telling the truth. So I would take that as a compliment. However, if he orgasms faster with a “much fitter and much younger woman,” then I could see how that would be confusing and possible hurt a woman’s feelings. But judging by your question, it doesn’t seem like you’re more focused on how long it takes for him to orgasm than jealousy of a younger woman making him cum faster. So I will address that. In my experience, depending on how “turned on” my man is, or if he has not came in a long time, it can be super quick (2-3 minutes). If we’ve been having sex, then switch to blowjobs, then back to sex, then back to blowjobs, then it can take longer (10 minutes).

Ryan’s response to best blow jobs ever
Personally I think if you let your husband get a blow job from a fitter, younger woman, you should not judge him on how quick he orgasms.  If you are insecure in your oral sex abilities, then do not open the door for other women to please your man.  Having a strange woman that is fit and younger sucking your penis can turn you on more than you would normally be turned on.  Forget the fit and younger part, just the fact she is strange and new.  This new girl could be the worst at giving oral sex but because it’s so new, the man may be going through some inner egotistical horny phase of having a strange woman down on her knees pleasing him.  Sometimes this our inner thoughts and desires make us orgasm quickly, regardless of what the mouth is actually doing on our dicks.  If Venice is talking extremely dirty to me, or doing something wild like throwing up in my lap, I may orgasm from just seeing something so crazy.  If she flips me over and licks my ass, I may cum on the couch before she even turns me back over.  However, none of that has to do with how good she is giving me a blow job, just how turned on I am.  A new woman can turn us on because she is new.  In my opinion, that’s the excitement and rush you get from having a third person in your bedroom.  It should not be offensive because that is why you probably decided to try (swinging / threesomes) in the first place.  There may be  nothing special about her skills, her technique, or anything else.  If you are allowing him to get blow jobs from other women, you should be in a mental space where you want him turned on and having fun.  That’s the whole purpose.   

For the record, yes, sometimes we do hold back.  Although not always talked about, the build up to the orgasm is much more satisfying than the actual orgasm itself.  The orgasm is a final release, closure.  However, the sex high, the endorphins, the stress relieving, the bonding, the emotional connection, the “love” we feel towards a woman, is during the euphoric stage where we are building up to our orgasms.  At least for me.  If I didn’t have feelings for a woman, I probably would just fuck or sit back and get my dick sucked to have a release.  I personally wouldn’t want a mental connection or a long euphoric stage where I feel some sort of bond.  I just want to cum.  So Venice is right, take that as a compliment.

February 20, 2019

The Legend Of Heather I Love Deepthroat: An Incomplete Story Of America’s Greatest Amateur Porn Star

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The Legend Of Heather “I Love Deepthroat” Harmon 

If it wasn’t for Heather Harmon and Jim Harmon, Fuckblogging.com may have never existed.  Well, that may be giving them a little too much credit. However, a lot of edgy twitter accounts with amateur couples sharing their naughty pics and videos, all started with this amateur couple (or this was the first couple that really blew up back when the internet was the wild wild west).  I believe one of our first blogs ever was Venice writing about her experiences in learning to deepthroat.   And from there, our blog kind of moved into a lot of other things, including threesomes with other women, videos, and naughty photos.  Unfortunately for us, we never got rich off our blog, in fact, we haven’t made a penny!  But, to pay homage to these amateur legends that went from married couple uploading a few videos, to all out porn stars in the early 2000s, we decided to share a great article by Hersh Bavnik.  

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