Masturbating together as a couple creates a stronger relationship.
Masturbating together as a couple is an excellent way to bring couples closer together, whether in person or virtually. it can be one of the most intimate sexual experiences we can share with another person. it can be one of you masturbating the other partner while talking dirty, both of you guys masturbating at the same time, or masturbating each other one after the other.
For us, masturbating together has became the most important part of our intimacy. Below I will go over all the reasons why masturbating with your partner creates a stronger relationship.
Advantages to couples masturbating together
- Masturbating together can help you feel more comfortable talking about sex with your partner.
- Masturbating with your partner is a good way to talk to each other while you masturbate and share your fantasies.
- Masturbation can change your entire idea of what sex and intimacy in a relationship really is.
- If you have threesomes with a partner involved, masturbating together is a great way to communicate and talk about what those experiences meant for both of you.
- Mutual masturbation is a great way to make sure both of you are satisfied.
- Masturbation is a great way for a partner to take a “off day” but still make sure the other person still gets their release.
Masturbating together can help you feel more comfortable talking about sex with your partner.
One of the biggest obstacles in a new relationship is being transparent with your partner about your sex drive (sex drive compatibility), your fantasies, and your sexual preferences. It’s way too common that one partner thinks the other partner is innocent and pure and rather than discussing sex, they both play a role. They may feel they will not love each other if they knows each others’ sexual fantasies and experiences. This can be a disaster in a relationship. Once you open the door to masturbating together as a couple, ideas flow. Specifically because as the dopamine take over your body, you tend to open up with your most naughtiest ideas. The first step to opening up with each other is being comfortable that neither of you will judge each other. Once you are in a safe place, masturbating together can literally save your relationship.
Dopamine boosts bonding and the libido. Dopamine is a chemical released by the brain in response to pleasure. It plays a major role in reward-motivated behavior and actually activates libido through sex, masturbation, making out, flirting, or the anticipation of seeing, talking to or being with your partner.
Masturbating together is a good way to talk to each other while you masturbate and share your fantasies.
Masturbating as a couple can lead to a whole new world. Because your mind opens up and it gives you the opportunity to put your thoughts into your partners head, no telling where it can lead sexually. My husband has told me that when I massage him and tell him my dirtiest thoughts, he is almost mentally numb and listening to my words like audible porn. I am like the alien inside his head controlling his thoughts, movements, orgasm, and excitement level based on the things I am telling him. And if at first talking isn’t your thing, you can get ideas watching porn together, or browsing various Masturbation Websites. The more you masturbate together, the more you will realize that talking comes naturally. And the more you talk, the more you will open the pandora box to your dirtiest, naughty secrets. I have been married for 25 years and the first 15 years was normal, I guess. But after we started masturbating and talking together, our entire world has opened up and we have done all types of things I never thought a couple could ever do, with other people and ourselves.
Masturbating together can change your entire idea of what sex and intimacy in a relationship really is.
Mutual masturbation has been better than what 99% of the population would consider “sex”. Whether it be me masturbating him, him masturbating me, or us masturbating together, actual sexual intercourse has became the most boring part of our sex life because it’s usually the same dirty talk. I get him hard, he fucks my brains out while I scream and he calls me a whore or slut, and we cum together and crash out. But let me say, it’s pretty freaking hard to actually talk and communicate with my husband while his big dick is smashing into the back of my walls destroying my insides. We have both learned that we love masturbating together, and definitely consider masturbating together as a form of sex. Some of you may disagree, but that’s probably because you haven’t opened your mind to how powerful and intimate masturbating together really is.
If you have threesomes, masturbating together is a great way to communicate and talk about what those experiences meant for both of you.
As most of our long time readers know, we have shared most of the beginning of our threesome journey. Masturbating together after a threesome now plays a huge part in our threesome experience. Although we no longer go into details of our experiences because we felt it wasn’t fair to the third person that we may be criticizing, we still discuss with each other all our naughty thoughts and details. While we discuss, we are usually masturbating each other so we can be in that euphoric state that keeps us both extremely honest and open. This leads to what seems to be our most powerful orgasms.
Mutual masturbation is a great way to make sure both of you are satisfied.
If you are worried about your partner faking orgasms or unsure if she gets off, masturbating together is a great way to insure that both of you reach a climax. What better way to make sure you orgasm than asking the other person do it themselves? It sounds silly but you can research online how many partners are left totally unsatisfied and quickly understand while masturbating with your partner can change the sexual landscape of your bedroom.
Couples that masturbate together, ejaculate together.
Masturbating together is a great way for a partner to take a “off day” but still make sure the other person still gets their release.
Much like the previous reason, masturbation can be used as a tool in your relationship to make sure you are both satisfied. However, it can also be used as a tool that when your partner is having an off day, to participate in watching or helping you masturbate, can help sway infidelity. I like to make sure my husband’s balls are empty no matter what. I do not care if I am sick, tired, or just not in the mood, I am draining him. After 25 years of marriage, if he still has the “juice” to want to cheat, he isn’t human. However, I know him well, and leaving him drained kills his sex drive outside of our bedroom. Which is exactly how we both like it. He doesn’t want to go to the gym horny, and I don’t want him at the gym horny. If that’s wrong, I don’t want to be right!
Other advantages to masturbating together
- Masturbating together can lead to more sex, threesomes, and introducing your hidden kinks.
- Masturbating together can help if your partner has trouble with premature ejaculations.
- Masturbating together can break up the routine.
- If one of your partner likes watching, this would fulfill that voyeurism kink. If your partner enjoys being watched, this would fulfill that exhibitionism kink.