Q&A: My boyfriend’s ass crack smells so bad when I go down on him, what to do?
So my boyfriend’s ass crack smells putrid. I’ve been going out with him for a few months now. I gotta say, his overall hygiene down there leaves a little to be desired but a) I’m down to clown regardless and b) I don’t really know how to bring this up! How do I tell him?
Now, he’s a morning shower-er, which poses a problem because we always get nasty in the evenings or in bed before the showering happens. I myself am an evening shower and have modelled exemplary hygiene since the get go.
I can deal with a bit of a musty peen, I get it, can’t be minty fresh all the time, but sometimes I can smell terrible smells wafting up from his butt crack and when there is a peen halfway down my throat it really does induce gagging, and not in a sexy fun way.
I’ve also seen him shower, and I don’t think he actually approaches the crack with soap. Or even at all.
Now, how does one tell someone to wash their ass better and that sometimes their junk doesn’t smell great (also, could the man have penile thrush, because sometimes it smells like thrush to me)? How does one navigate this conversation sensitively?
Also, has this happened to anyone else? In my years of oral and stuff, I’ve not been near a but that smells so strong! Have I been lucky thus far?
Venice’s response to smelly dick
You answered your own question. Have a talk with him and ask him take a shower prior to y’all getting freaky. My husband and I shower any time we use the bathroom. If we are not at home, we shower as soon as we get home. At our place, we have a bidet (we do not get paid off any link to amazon, as their terms of service does not allow sex blogs to affiliate with them — we just like the product), which you can buy extremely cheap and install instantly. Literally, you can add a bidet to your toilet using the existing waterline, no power. It shoots cool water directly on your anus and cleans you thoroughly. Unlike a cold pool, or a cold shower, cool water directly on your anus feels much more comfortable than you’d expect.
This should fix any of the issues you have with your boyfriend’s smells and his rancid ass crack. As always, a simple talk and good communication solves almost every issue or question we get on this blog.
Ryan’s response to smelly dick
Venice is correct. When dealing with a partner and his smelly ass crack, a good start is telling him. It’s all about communication. You can also play nice and ask him to shower with you. Or you can hop in the shower with him when you see him showering in the morning. While in there, grab the soap and rub him down, his smelly ass crack included.
I can’t believe people spend time with a partner, have sex, date for months, and do not know how to communicate something as simple as, “Hey baby, your smelly ass crack is making me gag. Can you please try to clean it better? Would you like me to shower with you and put a good scrubbing on it?”
Much like women need to work to keep their vagina odor-free, men should do the same. I keep my ass crack as fresh as possible. I also spray antiperspirants on my creases to make sure I smell fresh. Some men like to keep their asses so clean you can eat dinner off of them.