Question for men: Are you against having your ass touched and/or tasting your own cum? And if so, why?
I’m asking because every single man I’ve been with (including my current boyfriend) has been firmly against those two things. The men I’ve fucked have constantly touched/entered my ass enjoying anal. They have also shoved their fingers in my mouth after fingering me without it even being a second thought or discussed. Even though I am totally cool with it, I just want to know why men won’t kiss me after cumming in my mouth. It seems silly to me I don’t get it.
Venice’s response to tasting your own cum
I find it silly as well. In fact, for me, this isn’t even something I’d accept. Anything I feel like doing, I am going to do to my husband. We can even mix those two scenarios together. If I decide to finger his asshole and stick it in his mouth, he better suck on my fingers. I’d be upset if he didn’t. With that said, we are married. It took a long time for us to get comfortable with each other, trust each other with all our dark skeletons and kinks, and be able to do whatever it is two humans can possibly do to each other without having to worry about judgement.
I’d think with dating or random hook ups, the man risks kissing you after he cums and not knowing if you will keep his secret. He hasn’t talked to you enough to know you would love that type of thing. He also hasn’t talked to you enough to know that you wouldn’t tell every single friend how he licked his cum off your chest after he came. Whether we accept it or not, a man doing those types of things may emasculate him to other men that hear about it. So they keep their guards up.
Until they trust you… and then you can stand them on their heads and milk their cocks into their own mouths.
Ryan’s response to tasting your own cum
Without a lot of experience with women other than my wife, I can’t say what I would be like as a single man. I do think women who are okay with tasting themselves, shows me they are confident, know their body is clean, know their pussy is good, and to taste themselves is a huge turn on for me. If a woman was grossed out by her own body, I would probably be turned off. Or just want to get it over with as fast as possible.
Let’s flip the coin.
If a man eats his cum, or goes down and eats his own creampie, not all women find that attractive. They may actually see it as emasculating, or beta. Something cucks do. Although we don’t kink shame here at sexblogging, not all women want a man that is beta or a cuck. So a man has to worry about looking weak, or looking like a beta to a female. Even if he wanted to kiss you after he came in your mouth. It goes back to the idea of women can do gay things and not be judged by other women, while men doing gay things are looked down on by straight men.
And as far as boyfriends, dates, or short-term relationships go, a man may just stay reserved. If you break up with him, who knows who you will tell about how he gargles his own semen after he drinks it from your vagina. Like Nessa said, it’s probably something you will find out men enjoy when you are in long-term relationships, or married.