Rather than not blog anything on a busy Thursday, I decided to be lazy and take a naughty selfie! Oh the traffic we will get from a dirty PG selfie! Either way, hopefully you guys have a good weekend! By the way, do you think my boots are cute?!
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Q&A: Why Do I Love To Be Abused During Sex?
Hello Venice and Ryan. My question is pretty simple. What is it about being abused during sex that I like so much? I suppose the variation of this question for Ryan would be, why do some men really enjoy the role of being abusive during sex? Thank you guys! rough sex rough sex rough sex rough sex rough sex
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Random Thoughts: Marriage, Shallow Thoughts, Pussy Boyfriends, & Fat Cocks
I’ve been with Ryan a long time. A really long time. Maybe not to some who are in their 80s, but in comparison to the number of years I’ve been alive. I started thinking about how I never wanted to get married. I’m not sure if it was because it was easier to not work at being in a real relationship and just do whatever the fuck you want, or if it was because I just never found the right person to challenge me at being a good girlfriend. Fortunately, and please excuse the cornball analogy, Ryan has thrown down the gauntlet and accepted the challenge. pussy boyfriends
I really don’t think that simply having parents who are still married has much influence on the type of relationship I choose to have or be in. Instead, I think it has a lot to do more with psychological issues and not just values and upbringing. Because although my parents are still married, and like every child in a two-parent household, I’ve seen them go through rough times. There’s nothing special about them – they weren’t high school sweethearts, they weren’t lovey, and they weren’t role model parents/spouses. But I like to think the household and family they created conceived the perfect me, Venice Bloggs, the same person to whom Ryan has promised his soul and loyalty. So I’ll never complain about my upbringing and everything because why? I’m perfect (for Ryan), and what is flawed and cause for break-up in other relationships, he embraces them and lovingly refers to them as my own delicious personality traits. pussy boyfriends
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Sex Games For Couples: Semen Says
What can make sex more fun and playful than turning it into a game? Throughout our years of marriage we have came up with ideas that we may or may not have actually used. But none the less, we have decided to share our ideas with our readers. Some of these games may help with communication or kinky secrets, some may be for sex parties, but others just may be simple quick fun to use as foreplay. Over the next few months we will share with our readers different games we have came up with. If you and your partner have your own games, please share in the comments below!
Semen Says: Simon Says with a twist! You can play this with a single partner, at a swinging party, at a gay party, or wherever you feel the rules can apply. One player (male) must be Semen Says. Anything Semen Says, you must do. The trick here is, Semen Says cannot get an erection. Ex: Player 1 says, “Semen says lick under both of my arms for 30 seconds.” If Player 2 (or multiple other players) licks under Player 1’s arms, and Player 1 gets an erection, his turn is over. You can create your own rules, but for ideas sake, if Player 1 gets an erection he must give oral sex to Player 2 (or all other players involved) until Player 2 orgasms. However, if Player 2 refuses to lick under Player 1’s arms, Player 2 must give oral sex to Player 1 until he cums. Now why would Player 2 refuse a request? Who knows, maybe it’s something she/he has never thought of doing, doesn’t want to do because it crosses a personal boundary, or Player 2 is just horny and wants to suck Semen Says dick. Obviously this game needs at least one man. This game is also a great ice breaker for fmf (female/male/female) threesomes, which as our readers know, is something we enjoy ourselves. Having the man challenge the ladies to do different kinky things to him until he inevitably gets an erection gets everyone to relax. When he loses, he gets to spend the rest of the night pleasuring them for winning the game. It’s a win win. With an even larger group (mmff++), Semen Says gets more foreplay attention from various partners….until of course he losses.
So why would anyone want to be Semen Says when the goal is for him to lose? Well, the easiest answer first; you get to give oral sex and get your partner off. The other reasons are a bit more complicated. It’s also great way to ask for something you may never ask for otherwise. Whether it be having your feet licked, ass licked, or whatever other kinks you have kept to yourself. Believe it or not, some couples do not have, or have never had oral sex, so a game like this could be a great way to break the ice and try new things.
So don’t disregard the game if you are just a couple playing together (no need to have threesomes or multiple partners to enjoy this game). Especially if you are a new couple, young couple, or just two people that have a hard time communicating. This game gives permission to Semen Says to ask for the things he would never ask for otherwise.
So this game is good for couples still learning to communicate sexually, great for breaking the ice during a threesome, and just balls out fun with multiple partners at a swinging party.
We actually have a few more games we will share at a future date. Stay tuned.
For now, Semen says sign off the internet and enjoy the rest of your week!
Meet The Other Couples Blogging
Meet the Other Couples (Fuck) Blogging.
Anie – Anie is an attractive married woman that has came out to her husband that she is bisexual and wants to enjoy a threesome with another woman with him. She has only been married for 3 years. Although she would love to have a threesome with her husband, it isn’t that easy. So far she has found her first girlfriend, but the other girl isn’t interested in a threesome. For those of us in this open lifestyle, this is a very familiar situation. It’s possible the other girl also wants Anie to join her in her own threesome with her male counterpart, which Anie also isn’t interested in. Her blog will clarify and fill us in on all the trials and tribulations of a woman looking to enjoy both sides of being bisexual, in one bedroom, with her husband. Stay tuned and read the blogs below. All Anie’s blogs will start as followed: “Anie – (Blog Title Here)”.
The Quad – The Quad is 2 couples in a polyamory relationship. After years of marriage, the couples meet through a social network “meet up” with various other couples. They all got along extremely well and formed what is now known as The Quad.
- Bob (shutterbob.net) is a voyeur, photographer, sadist, sexual explorer, you name it he has thought of it and probably tried it. Out of the group he is the one that will push the borders and pull the group along (with full consent of course). He is also the one that probably seeks out group play the most. Bob is Dom to both Lexxi and Krys and takes great pleasure in pushing their limits and borders. As he likes to say; it’s not the destination that matters but the journey.
- Krys (krystalla3.wordpress.com) is one of Bob’s subs. She is still discovering her submissive side and is finding that she is masochistic. She loves the pain and marks on her body. Krys also has a boyfriend outside of the quad.
- Lexxi (lexxiblue.wordpress.com) is a sensualist sub who likes to be restrained. She doesn’t mind pain but doesn’t necessarily like marks left on her body. She does like having her limits pushed, gently. She hates to admit it, but she is realizing she’s a service sub, however doesn’t think she’s very good at it. She doesn’t enjoy cleaning house, but she does take pleasure in making sure everyone’s needs are met. Everyone meaning her Sir, her poly hubby, her sister sub, and any guests that come into her home.
- Gun (opencoupling.com) is the most vanilla in our quad. He isn’t into kinky sex but has dabbled with the group to have an understanding. He can be a verbal Dom when situation presents itself. His other fetishes is new blood. To experience new women (well, new to him, that is). Currently has a few other relationships outside of the quad.
All The Quads blogs will start as followed: “The Quad – (Blog Title Here)”.
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