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May 17, 2023

Do Men Prefer Giving Oral Sex With Women Fresh Out of the Shower or Do They Enjoy Our Work Bodies

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Do Men Prefer Giving Oral Sex With Women Fresh Out of the Shower or Do They Enjoy Our Work Bodies

Although a woman’s first reaction to this type of question would probably be she prefers to be freshly showered.  It’s a natural thought process for us to want to feel as clean as possible for our man.  Whether it be insecurity or feeling self conscious from hearing when we were young the jokes about a vagina smell be similar to fish.  Mine sure isn’t.  But this is why communication is important because what you believe, may not be what he desires.  Ask your partner what they prefer.  Personally I do not mind my husband going down on me after a long day at work, but I also make sure it’s on a day where I didn’t use the rest room at work, or some other public bathroom.  Neither I nor him like the idea of him going down on me and eating me out when I was sitting on a work bathroom.  Besides that variable, he does prefer my natural smell over soap and water.  So I keep that in mind and try to make sure I am as fresh as possible at all times.  Whether it be unscented wipes, using our bidet, and hoping in the shower mid day if I come home for an emergency “number 2” during a work day.   As I have stated many times on this blog, me and my husband both like to shower after going “number 2”, even with the use of a bidet.  

I once was told something funny by a lesbian girl who was flirting with me.  I informed her that we couldn’t hang out this weekend because I was on my cycle.  She responded, “I am true lesbian, I run red lights.”   I thought it was hilarious.  So this poll isn’t just for men, it’s for anyone that enjoys going down on women.  Maybe one day we can do a poll and separate the answers to men vs bi/gay women.  Personally I prefer a woman fresh out the shower when I go down on them.  I do not enjoy the idea of a long day of sweat and pheromones.   

To Shower or Not To Shower

We decided to add a poll.  Although we understand that some people may respond with answers like, “I just want her comfortable” or “Both”.   Our poll’s goal isn’t to play the middle ground, we want to see which preference is the majority when it comes to showering and oral sex.  

 

Do you prefer to give oral sex to a woman immediately after a shower or (6-10 hours) after?
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Here are a few comments on the topic from around the web.

Either, but i preferably no balls of toilet paper.

 

Fresh, because it seems to allow her to be more into it and less anxious about how her pussy tastes or smells, which makes it more fun for both of us because she’s more relaxed.

 

The cleaner the better but I won’t say no if it’s the end of the day too. If she’s not showered for a couple of days or whatever then it’s probably gonna be a no.

 

I much prefer it fresh out of the shower but that sweet and ripe scent full of their pheromones in the evening is also nice.

 

I’m down for anything, but fresh out of the shower isn’t my favorite. I love the way my wife smells (all over, not just there), and that’s a big part of my enjoyment when we’re together.

 

The absolute best is when she’s worked the whole day, i need the smell. Its arousing to no end

 

I strongly prefer “well marinated” but am happy any time … fresh out of the shower would be my least preferred.

 

I prefer it fresh

 

I’m more attracted to a natural musk that’s present several hours after a shower. Clean is fine, but I’d prefer a nice scent. Multiple days without showering? No thank you.

 

Honestly wouldn’t matter either way (unless it was really pungent). I’ve even eaten out my wife when she was on her period (not during the heaviest part) a couple of times, and that wasn’t a problem. Only time I’ve ever really hated it was one ex who used to use products on her pussy to “make it smell nice”. It didn’t.

 

 

 

 

May 10, 2023

How to Wash Your Penis

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How to Wash Your Penis

Believe it or not, some men have no idea how to wash their penises.  Whether it be lazy, thinking their penis is like their thumb and never smells, or just ignorant to their own bodies.  Anything resting between your sweaty thighs or on your sweaty balls is going to have to be cleaned.  I do not care how clean you think you are.  Let’s get started with our how to clean your penis guide.

The Washing Your Penis Technique

Gently wash your penis each day. If you are uncircumcised, carefully pull back and clean underneath the foreskin, as well as the tip of your penis (the glans) using only water and a very gentle soap. Don’t scrub this sensitive area.  If you are circumcised, lather up your penis and shaft with soap and stroke yourself.  It really is that simple.  Personally, I use antibacterial soap, but use whatever your body handles well.  Some men complain soap irritates their penis, if so, try soft body wash or baby wash.

If you are uncircumcised, make sure you gently dry the tip of your penis, the area underneath your foreskin and the rest of your penis. Replace the foreskin over the tip of the penis.   If you are circumcised, you should still dry your entire penis prior to putting on your briefs.  Leaving your underwear moist can cause jock itch (fungal infection).

Do not take the One Chip Challenge and follow up by masturbating.

Another tip for your tip, wash your hands.  If you touch raw foods or things that could possibly irritate your penis, it could lead to bacterial growth and cause unwanted odors.    It can also lead to a very painful experience if you were to touch something like hot peppers and then rub your crotch.

Another effective method to making sure your penis is clean, is to always wash your penis after sex.   What’s interesting is a lot of times women do not know that the penis may smell after sex because of their own smell.  As much as men should wash their penis, women should know that sometimes that smell coming from his cock is coming from you.

Can someone please tell my boyfriend how to wash his smelly penis?!

Can a dick not smell at all?  I am talking about after showering. When I first met my boyfriend his dick didn’t smell.  I remember it because it was my first time seeing a dick in real life and I was surprised that it didn’t smell or anything.  But from the second time I saw it, it smelt really bad.  Now, even after showering, it still smells.   I asked him If he washes it and he said with just water.  He doesn’t like soap because he thinks it is bad for his penis and makes it smell worse.

If dicks in general are all like this, I don’t think I will ever have sex with men again.  Can a penis not smell at all? 

Imagine.

Some women with a lot of experience with oral sex understand that their saliva, even if your breath is fresh, can have an off-putting smell.   If you don’t believe me, simply suck on your finger and smell it.  If you really want to treat yoself, put the finger as far back as you can in your throat and then smell.   Whether it be the deep hidden yeast on the back of your tongue, tonsil stones, or whatever the cause, giving a man oral sex and smelling his penis during can lead women to believe his penis smells.   

This thought reminds me of the first time my daughter wore a mask and said, “Eww, what’s the smell!”    

Antiperspirant

This is a metrosexual / gay man’s best kept secret.  Antiperspirant can keep your cock and balls dry and shower fresh throughout the entire day.  It will be up to you to find a spray that smells “fresh” more so than smelling like cologne.  No one wants a dick that smells like cologne.    Some men may be sensitive to antiperspirants, but I can safely say I have been using it for years and the only side effect I’ve had was my dick always smelling great.  Not too powerful, but never musty.

Stay away from baby powder

The only time I have had issues below was when I was a teenager and would lather my dick and crotch in baby powder.  I have always wanted that fresh smell.  I believe because baby powder has cornstarch it actually helped caused my jock itch. It didn’t help that I was an athlete and worked out all day.  But none the less, I have never had the issue again after I quit using baby powder.  Take that with a ‘grain of salt’ though, because that is just a bit of bro science. 

 

April 12, 2023

Sex Toy Review: Kiiroo Keon + FeelStroker & Pearl2 Couple Set

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Sex Toy Review: Kiiroo Keon + FeelStroker & Pearl2 Couple Set

For the record, we had an older couples set by Kiiroo that we sold on our website and it didn’t last even an hour. It sold instantly. This company creates items that most couples have to own.

With that said, this is the second time we have reviewed a Kiiroo couples set and once again we were not let down. This time they sent us the robocop version of a male masturbator.  The Keon.  This set also includes a sleeve, as well as the Pearl2 vibrator for a woman.   

As far as the Keon goes, this thing is huge. 

That’s what she said….

🦗🦗🦗<crickets>🦗🦗🦗

Seriously, this thing is huge.  The Keon is a very large machine that holds the FeelStroker (Kiiroo’s version of a Fleshlight) and acts like a power drill on your man piece.  

But that’s not all.  The KEON has a feature that allows it to sync with preset videos you can watch on their app. Through VR, or through watching a POV (point of view) video, the KEON actually massages your penis to the exact same movements you see in the video. For instance, if a girl is stroking a penis in a video, the KEON strokes you in the same rhythm. If she is sucking slow, it also moves slow.  In the video we viewed, it was two women giving a blow job, and this thing was able to keep up with the video and vibrate to the exact same movements. Great feature! As with most strokers you can change the speed and find your sweet spot.  

Speaking of sweet spots, this set also comes with the highly acclaimed Pearl2.  You can check out our review of the Pearl2 here:  Couples Set w/ Pearl2

As with our previous review, we’d highly recommend this product. This is probably the most sought after device for couples, long distance relationships, or just a horny guy that wants to sync his stroker to the vibrator and fuck himself twice at the same time.

Say what?

Anyway, the two devices sync with each other, or sync with the apps on your phone. You can play in the same room or long distance. If masturbating with each other is something you are into, do not pass up on a set like this. 

Pros:

    • Probably the most powerful masturbator I have ever felt. Regardless how tight the sleeve is, the motor will not stop like some of the cheaper male masturbation toys.
    • You can sync the Keon to various videos which allows you to feel what you are watching.
    • Both items are made for couples and interactive.  You can play with your woman’s toy long distance and get her off through the app.

Cons:

    • The Keon is just too big. Maybe I do not have it figured out but it’s like holding a dang cinder block over your cock. I mean, it’s the best feeling cinder block on earth, but it’s still a dang cinderblock.  
    • This is a pro and con, the Pearl2 is pretty basic.  It really doesn’t do anything fancy besides shake your goodies until your goody shakes. But in our experience, this type of vibrator becomes your main go to when you need a quickie on the go.

 

Website Description:

Price:   $319

Keon + FeelStroker & Pearl2 Purple Couple Set

Keon

A new standard in interactive pleasure has been set with Keon by KIIROO; the smartest automatic masturbator on the market today. Embodying both innovation and design in a small, compact casing; KEON is the ultimate automatic Sex Toy for Men.  Its ergonomic shape and intuitive grip control helps optimize your experience in limitless ways. All you need to do is let KEON unleash your fantasies without constraints.

KIIROO Stroker 

This Stroker is KIIROO’s first stroker. The patented material gives you the most pleasurable experience. This stroker was designed to fit perfectly in Keon by KIIROO. 

KIIROO Pearl2 

The world’s most technologically advanced G-spot vibrator, designed to fulfill your most intimate needs.  KIIROO Pearl2 Purple is a technologically advanced G-spot vibrator enabled with touch-sensitive technology. It can be used for solo play, couples play from a distance or you can connect it to your favorite videos.

What You Get In The Box:

Keon by KIIROO

KIIROO FeelStroker

KIIROO Pearl2 in Purple

We are not affiliated with Kiiroo.com and get no revenue from this review.  We are just sharing our experiences with our readers.  

April 5, 2023

Cuddle Positions – Every Night

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cuddlingThis is the position we fall asleep in almost every night.  The man sleeps on his back with the woman turned away from him.  She uses his underarm to place her pillow (or rests her head on his bicep).  The man can reach around naturally and cup her breast or hold her hand/wrist.

Pros & Cons
+ Extremely comfortable position if the man likes to sleep on his back and the woman on her side.  

– The arm under the head can “go to sleep” after a certain amount of time.  

 

Why is Cuddling so important?

When you cuddle with someone you care about, your body releases a hormone called oxytocin that calms you and makes you more likely to deal better with stress.  Cuddling also has a large connection with being nurtured.   It has been shown through research that cuddling helps an infant develop an attachment to his/her parent.  This is instinctual and as you grow older, adults can cuddle to form this same attachment.  Cuddling has also been shown to boost an infant’s oxygen levels, calm its breathing, and ease pain signals. And for an underweight baby, it raises survival chances by more than a third. It helps the brain grow and makes infection and other illnesses, like hypoglycemia or hypothermia, less likely.   This is why we love to cuddle.   

Benefits to our bodies from cuddling

  • Ease Stress
    • When you cuddle with someone you care about, your body releases a hormone called oxytocin that calms you and makes you more likely to deal better with stress. 
  • Helps Your Heart
    • It’s good for your heart.  Cuddling lowers blood pressure. Scientists say it’s clearer that women get this benefit from cuddling, but it seems to be true for both sexes.
  • Relieves Pain
    • A good cuddle may give you more than just moral support after an injury. The oxytocin cuddling releases can help block pain signals. 
  • Fight Colds
    • Too much stress effects the immune system.  Hugs from people you trust may protect you against this common virus, especially if you’re under a lot of stress. And if you’re already sick, more cuddling might keep your symptoms from getting worse.
  • Connects You to Your Partner
    • Oxytocin is sometimes called the love hormone.  Whether having sex, cuddling, touching, dancing, or holding hands, your body is releasing oxytocin.  Couples who cuddle and kiss freely tend to be happier, healthier, and less stressed.
  • Helps You Sleep
    • Oxytocin is the key ingredient again. Because of oxytocin calming effects, it relaxes you and helps you sleep.

Benefits to cuddling your partner

  • Cuddling improves satisfaction in relationships. 
    • In an experimental study, increased cuddling for married couples resulted in statistically higher relationship satisfaction. This finding was particularly notable as the couples who increased their cuddling behaviors were compared to couples who increased time spent together over mealtimes and those who did not change their behavior.
  • Cuddling helps maintain focus on your partner. 
    • In the same study, with increased cuddling, the focus is honed in on our romantic partner as opposed to thinking “what else is out there?”
  • Cuddling releases oxytocin and promotes positive emotions. 
    • Affectionate touch behaviors release oxytocin.  Oxytocin is a natural love hormone that helps us feel closer to our partners. When we cuddle, we feel a surge of positive emotions such as love, adoration, and trust. While cuddling typically occurs around sexual activity, it is perceived to be a nurturing type of behavior rather than a sexual one.
  • Cuddling after sex benefits your relationship. 
    • In a longitudinal study, the duration and quality of post-sex affection including cuddling are related to greater subsequent reports of relationship and sexual satisfaction.  Couples can use this time to be close to each other physically and emotionally, sharing their thoughts and feelings, or not saying anything at all.

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March 29, 2023

How To Watch Porn Together As A Couple

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How To Watch Porn Together As A Couple

Scenario:  You are sitting in a dark room with a bag of Cheetos half eaten, sweat dripping down your eyebrows. You are licking your lips and madly clicking your mouse with your eyes focused on your computer screen. You slowly lean back and unzip your pants, getting Cheeto crumbs all over your crotch. 

The door whips open…

All of the sudden your wife is standing behind you holding 2 bags of groceries. She drops the the grocery bags as she screams, “Oh my Gosh!”  Both bags of groceries drop from her arms in slow motion to the floor and the milk gallon bursts on impact splattering white liquid all over the room.

Not exactly the white splashing liquid you wanted to splash all over the room right?  Well, it doesn’t have to be like this. You are not a teenager anymore and there is no need to feel ashamed of enjoying the thrill of seeing naked strangers fuck.  

Things To Overcome When Watching Porn Together

      •  It can be extremely embarrassing for a woman to admit that they enjoy watching porn. 
          • Women feel their partner will not view them as “innocent” if they agree to watch/enjoy a porn together.
              • Don’t porn shame her.
          • Women feel their partner will think that just because she enjoys watching a video of a woman banging two guys that automatically means she herself wants to bang two guys.
              • Do not assume or force ideas onto your partner about things you see in videos.  Just watch and enjoy.  You can talk and be open, but keep it light-hearted and let her tell you her kinks, not YOU tell her what YOU think her kinks are because of a video you chose and she had an orgasm to. 
          • Women avoid porn because they feel their partners may then think they have total permission to watch porn or force them to try they things they watch together.
              • Just because you watch a porn together once doesn’t mean when she comes home from work you should have a porn video on the large screen like it’s an episode of The Office.
          • Women can get jealous of porn stars, their bodies, and the various acts they perform.
              • Try not to obsess on a porn star or their bodies. Some women are self conscious and this insecurity makes them feel totally uncomfortable watching porn stars.  This is also a jealousy issue, and one of the biggest road blocks when dealing with enjoying porn together for both partners.
      • It can also be embarrassing for a man to admit they enjoy watching porn.
          • Most men have watched and masturbated to porn whether they admit it or not. But for them, porn has became a ritual they do by themselves, secretly, because that’s how they’ve always watched it.
              • Don’t porn shame him.
          • Some men prefer not to watch porn with their partners because they have issues with their own penis size and do not want their partner to study, or be “ruined” by seeing other dicks in action.
              • As mentioned above, jealousy is a huge issue when watching a porn with your partner.  From body shape, breast size, penis size, to the various acts porn stars perform, it can create insecurities.  Be open and do not obsess on the porn stars dick size.
          • Some men and women feel that watching porn is cheating.
              • Every relationship is different, and cheating is dependent on your relationship and the rules all parties in that relationship have agreed upon.  And this is why watching porn together could totally remove the cheating aspect.
      • A lot of people have moral issues with the idea that people are paid to have sex while others watch.  Whether that be making porn videos or prostitution.  
      • Religious beliefs may prevent someone from enjoying watching porn.

So how do you overcome some of these issues?  First, you want to read them again and understand them. The only way you overcome them is understanding them.  From there, communication and acceptance are important.  Talk to your partner and make sure they understand that no kink or fantasy they may have will ever be shamed by you, no matter what the kink may be.

Communicate

As with most relationship choices, talking about your desires is always a good first step. And I don’t mean yelling out, “Hey, instead of watching Curb Your Enthusiasm tonight, let’s watch this video called Tranny verse Granny.”

Communication is the key to a healthy relationship.  And despite the taboos involved with watching porn together, it can be something we’d consider healthy in a relationship because it keeps you and your partner sexually open. Sit your partner down and let your partner know that you would love to do something tonight that is a bit naughty. Maybe even suggest a weekly game. One week your partner can pick out something they want to do that they feel is naughty, and the next week you can do something you choose.  

 

A Few Reasons Why Watching Porn Together Is Healthy For Your Relationship

      • Watching porn together can bring you and your partner closer together.
      • Watching porn together can lead to intimate and honest conversations.
          • This is a good way to open up about your possible kinks. 
      • Watching porn together can replace foreplay when kissing and cuddling isn’t enough. 
      • Watching porn together can spark new ideas in the bedroom.  You might even discover you like things that you have never even considered.

Choosing the right video.

The internet is filled with porn. Which, if you’re not a seasoned user, can make it hard to filter through to the stuff you like, and harder still for two people to find something they both like. With that said, a lot of mainstream porn can be violent, misogynistic, and unrealistic, so talking about your boundaries beforehand is important.  A good start is finding videos that can be sexy and fun.  Maybe try a website like MrSkin.com.  This site not only can get you worked up, but it can also lead to fun and kinky conversations regarding various topics in the movie industry and all the various sex scenes in movies.  

Just be careful with the main “tube” porn sites, because even a simple search for “threesome” could yield results featuring step-siblings, or other taboo-themed content, which may or may not be too extreme.  If you’re searching together, make sure you keep an open line of communication and ask your partner prior to clicking a video if this is something they’d be interested in.

For us, our first video together was a VHS tape, starring Ron Jeremy.  How do I remember this?  Because it was the only video I had in my collection.  The internet was around, but our connection was dialup and watching videos online just wasn’t possible for us. So we had our lucky VHS tape and would probably make it through half a scene before we’d turn it off and make the magic happen. 

Take turns

Once you have a sense of each other’s boundaries, maybe take turns on which video you decide to watch together.  This can help open the door to talk about kinks and things you may be interested in and your partner doesn’t know about.  It also gives your partner the same opportunity.  

Do (or do not) try this at home.

One of the great things about watching porn as a couple is that you might see something you want to try yourselves. This can be a good staging area for consent, because you’re both watching the same act in real-time and can agree together if you’re into it, versus one person trying to incorporate something they once saw on their own.  Just a quick little comment like, “Hey, that looks kind of hot, what do you think?”  If your partner responds, “It’s very hot.”   You can then follow up with a passive question such as, “Is that something you think you’d like to try or not really?”  If the answer is not really, move on.  Remember the huge list at the top of this article that talks about all the things you need to overcome when watching porn together?  This is a huge red flag. Do not pressure your partner to try the things you see in videos, this is the exact reason a lot of couples can’t watch videos together.