Threesome Memoirs – I Fucked A Girl With A Strap On

strap on sexI’ve always wondered what it would be like to have sex with a woman.  And by sex, I don’t mean eating her out as I finger her. I mean putting on a strap on and full out fucking her.

Yesterday, I got to do just that

Ever since our last lunch date (The Naughty Lunch Break),  she and I have been texting each other trying to coordinate dates and times for another get together.  It’s tough because there are three of us have that have to get our schedules straight, not just two.  I told her about my fantasy of using a strap-on on her and she happily replied, “I want you to do that to me.”  Immediately my mind began to race thinking about doing this to her.

Throughout that morning, we had our own version of “porn tag,” sending pictures to each other of women with strap-ons.  I wasn’t for certain if she was ready for us to do this, but when she sent me a few live pictures of her own juices while she was at work, I knew.

It seemed as if we both were very anxious about our date because we arrived at our house much sooner than the agreed-upon time.  As we walked in the door I squeezed her butt cheek.  She looked back at me with a sneaky smile.  We didn’t speak more than a few words because we were eager and hungry to rip each others clothes off.  Ryan hopped in the shower to freshen up.  I immediately began kissing her and stripping off her blouse.  I unbuttoned her slacks and let them fall to the ground.  I grabbed both of her butt cheeks and felt how full my hands were.  For a slim woman, her ass is disproportionately bigger than the rest of her body and I couldn’t resist holding and squeezing. She kissed on my neck as I slid her red thongs down her thighs.

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A Day Off Turned Into A Month Off

Gamer coupleSo a day off turned into a week off.  Then a week off turned into a month off.  Looking at our blog in the last few months I have noticed that we’ve slowed down a whole lot.  There are a few reasons why, and I guess I will spend some time explaining a few. 

One, the topics of threesomes got a bit stale and since we are still currently hooking up with a few regulars there isn’t much else to say.  Regrets or problems?  None.

Two, we dealt with a problematic blog reader that seemed to enjoy drama.   Think, flirting online just to tease her husband and then trying to get caught flirting so she can see if her husband gets jealous.  Thankfully we navigate through those situations fairly easy.  Thank you middle school for teaching us how to deal with these types of things.  With our life and blog posted for the world to read, we’ve had to learn how to handle random situations that we never thought we’d have to deal with.  Although it is fun and exciting, we prefer to stay away from drama if at all possible.  For all future husbands and boyfriends, if your wife/girlfirend reaches out and flirts with us, check your wife/girlfriend, not us.  We aren’t going to filter out the crazies from the normal and we try to be friendly with everyone.   We aren’t your problem, your wife/girlfriend/or yourself is the problem.  Work on that.

I not only want to thank middle school but I’d also like to thank the block features on our server and on Twitter.  

Three, we didn’t want to bring the blog back full circle and start talking about our more vanilla lifestyle.  We’re unsure if our readers want to hear about Venice learning to deepthroat again or us having normal missionary sex each day.   Because yes, our sex life is actually extremely vanilla.  With each other, we’ve never really had limits, but hooking up with other girls doesn’t define us as who we are.  In life, in this blog, or in our love.  To me, as much as we have written about our experiences, a threesome is nothing more than foreplay.   I personally get a thrill from the experience of another person in our bedroom, but the only sexual satisfaction I get it when I am with my wife later.  Whether it be comfort, not really turning my mind on to the experience, or the fact I am driven by an emotional connection.  The only time I feel any emotional connection is when me and my wife kiss during a threesome or when we are alone together. 

Four, we both tend to go through different hobbies and phases together.  Right now, we are doing something else together that is the exact opposite of a sex blog.   We now take up all our free time playing games together on side by side PCs.   Yes, we’re gaming nerds.  We will leave a game and tell our gaming clan to give us a moment to freshen up or run some errands, go fuck each others’ brains out, possibly have a threesome, then log back in and raid a base together.  We used to chat back and forth about different blog articles or what sexy picture to take next, but now we chat back and forth about what game we are going to play and how we are going to take over the world.  It’s what best friends do.

So, what does all that mean?   I think we will bring the blog back full circle and focus on various topics, even if they seem a bit boring or vanilla.  However, we will still talk about the mental developments we’ve had dealing with a third person.  We’re still growing a lot.

I’d also like to start back with Wednesday Snapshots as those pictures have always been my favorites. 

Happy Valentine’s Day

HeartHappy Valentine’s Day to all the couples or singles that frequent our website.  Today, Venice and I are not going to have hot and heavy Valentine’s sex.  We are not going to meet up with a hot local girl and throw her onto our bed for a Valentine’s threesome.  And we are not doing a steamy Valentine’s photoshoot that ends with me holding a Teddy Bear over Venice’s head while I cum inside her ass moving my hips in a heart shape.  Instead, we are having a no sex day.  What does that mean exactly?  It means we will lay in bed and slowly strip each other nude as we kiss and rub each others bodies.  I will rub my fingers inside and over her pussy and measure how turned on she gets by how wet my fingers feel.  We will kiss each others bodies from head to toe and possibly stop in certain areas if the moans get louder.  There isn’t an area I am not going to lick, as I will pay attention to every detail and crevice her body has to offer.  She will do the same, as we take turns appreciating and turning each other on.  What we won’t do is have sex, orgasm, or turn our night into a physical climax.  We do that every day already, as live our love life like it’s February 14, 364 days a year.    So this year we’ll spend Valentine’s Day going back to our experience the first time we saw each other nude and made out.  No, neither of us orgasmed then either.  Much like tonight, there was petting, touching, exploring, passionate kissing, and a lot of intense moments where we both want to cross that sexual line but stay focused on every reason why we love being close, that doesn’t have to do with sex.  

Sound dumb?   Tell us your plans in the comments below! 

Threesome Memoirs – The Naughty Lunch Break

For months now, I’ve been practicing my girl-on-girl game.  I was confident in the way I could look at a woman’s body and tell her that she looked gorgeous; that was my first step – a pivotal one – in accepting my bicuriosity.  Although I knew this bicuriosity was building in me, it wasn’t until my first female kiss (and eventually sharing my first female lover with Ryan) that I knew it wasn’t just curiousity, but I was truly bisexual in every way.

Recently I was at Victoria’s Secret because of a panty sale.  I’m lucky to have a VS close by and Ryan loves to know I am always sexy underneath my professional work attire.  So if there’s a good sale, I’m there.  The front display was surrounded by other eager ladies in a polite game of musical panties.  My eyes glanced across each cubby, assessing the exact styles and colors in my size.  I tried to work fast; it was cutthroat.  There was a woman with long, red hair to my right and another woman between us.  I made eye contact with them both and smiled.  As I was looking at a multicolored lace pair, the woman between us held up a pair that was in her hands.  Ooh, super cute, I thought to myself.  Put that down, that doesn’t fit you. I grinned.  On one of the ass cheeks was some flirtatious words that obviously did not appeal to her.

“Oh my,” she said as she looked at me.  “I don’t think I want to wear something like this,” she said with a look that could have set women’s suffrage back 100 years.  Me?  I believe in the 19th amendment and the right to vote.

She walked away from us and the woman with the red hair rolled her eyes.  I tried to contain my laughter as I said, “She needs to do her lingerie shopping in the men’s pajama pants section and stay out of this store.”

“You got that right.  I’d buy one of everything here.”  She was a petite little thing and one of the first thoughts I had was: I wonder what her ass looks like in thongs?

“Girl, you’re reading my mind,” I exclaimed as I moved closer to her so that our arms touched.  “Let me see what you got.”  She had a few boy shorts, some hip huggers, and a laced thong.  I held up the pairs I had in my hands and the rest is, as they say, history.

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Threesome Memoirs – Giving Him A Double Blow Job

bjSo far Ryan and I have had fairly positive experiences – for the most part. Do we regret doing anything we’ve done?  Not really.  I find purpose in every act in which Ryan and I have partook.  Every act, each person, all experiences – all were worth doing if it meant my man and I came away closer than before having done it.

For me, my absolute favorite thing to do in a threesome is the double blow job.  In fact, this is something I feel totally at ease with, and since I do, I can enjoy every aspect of it.  Since first revealing this to Ryan, he has asked me numerous times, “Why do you like double bjs so much?”  Rather than answer, “I just do.”  I felt we both needed a more thorough explanation as it helps to understand the female psyche (or at least mine) during this act which should otherwise be considered sacred by keeping it solely between husband and wife.

Let me begin by saying, for strictly monogamous couples, I believe a woman should do everything in her power to give her man the greatest blow job.  I may not be the best bj giver, but I know what my husband likes (enthusiasm, dirty talk, and variety in speed, content, and option for places to ejaculate, to name a few).  I, myself, have come to understand how to give Ryan the most visually stimulating as well as physically satisfying blow job.  The confidence I have knowing what he wants reflects my actions and attitude when another woman is helping me please my man.

Being a cheerleader.  I am excited, grateful, aroused – all of these things – when there’s a woman in my bedroom.  But since she’s the outside party, I do my best to make her feel safe and welcome.  If I were in her position, I imagine I would feel unsure of what was expected of me.  I would feel awkward, especially not knowing if there were boundaries that the other couple has discussed prior to me being there.  Since they take a chance at looking foolish I definitely do not want her to feel unwelcome. The most basic and probably most supporting thing I can do is to encourage her from the get go.  I can’t tell you how many times I’ve told the other woman, “Good girl,” “You look so fucking sexy with that dick in your mouth,” or “I love how that cock slides between your lips.”

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