Prostate [pros-teyt] (from the Greek word προστάτης, prostates, literally “one who stands before”, “protector”, “guardian”)
If you’re not familiar with the prostate, it is a gland surrounding the neck of the bladder in men. The prostate releases alkalinic prostatic fluid, which is part of the semen and is secreted during ejaculation. Prostatic fluid constitutes about 30% of the semen volume (along with spermatazoa and seminal vesicle fluid). The Prostate is about the size of a walnut and surrounds the urethra just below the urinary bladder. The prostate and be massaged and felt through the rectum. The overall alkalinity of semen helps to neutralize the acidity of the vaginal tract, prolonging the life span of sperm
The Prostate Massage Myth
Ejaculation, the expulsion of semen from the urethra, is possible through stimulation of the prostate gland, which is why the prostate is sometimes referred to as the “male g-spot.” I recently gave my husband a prostate massage. I will admit, I had no idea what a prostate was, or even where exactly it was located. I only knew about it through conversation and articles regarding prostate cancer. I’ve also seen various memes and skits in movies about men having to get a prostate exam at a doctor’s office by a hot nurse and ends up secretly liking them. Most of the time the comedic skit ends up with the man curled up in the corner sucking his thumb while the nurse smokes a cigarette asking the man if he is okay. I certainly did not know it was possible to give a prostate massage and make a man orgasm from the pleasure of it. For me personally, tI do not feel any physical sexual satisfaction associated with a prostate massage. There is, however, a strong sense of power and pride in giving and performing one.
My Experience Giving Him A Prostate Massage
The first time I gave my husband a prostate massage, he was extremely nervous and tense. When he is nervous, he tends to talk a lot, so we communicated openly as I explored around inside his anus. I had to ask him to relax multiple times and like always, I’m careful in navigating between his legs and anywhere else that goes beyond what I can see with my eyes. I made sure my finger and his anus was properly lubricated (we only extra virgin coconut oil) as I worked my way inside his rectum. At first, I was frustrated because I really didn’t know what to feel for; everything felt the same. Would it be soft or hard? Would it be smooth or rough? Pea size or bigger..or smaller? The first few inches in feel pretty much the same: smooth, like putting your finger in your mouth and wrapping your tongue around it. My husband nervously asked me if I felt anything, slightly uncomfortable from my finger circling around inside his rectum. I was eager to find it. I was about three inches inside him before I finally felt something. For someone who’d never felt a prostate before, I knew immediately what it was. To me, it has the texture of raw steak: thin sliced, but it’s unmistakable when you finally find it. It was very thrilling to say the least. I felt like I discovered something new in our sex life. A new tool and a new method of pleasing him. I pressed against it gently in an upward motion being careful not to scratch or nick it. Immediately I felt his prostate twitch as it responded to my touch. I asked him if he was “making a muscle” but at that level (i.e.d deep inside) it was mostly involuntary. I loved knowing that with every flick of my finger his body would pulsate to my touch. His talking quickly turned to mumbling as my rubbing inside him was giving him a “high” feeling. Ryan had no control because it was a massage, but from inside his body. I loved seeing his face as he was in a trance; for the first time, he equated a prostate massage to sexual pleasure and I was the one doing it. Hearing the gratification in his moans and voice turned me on. For me, it’s powerful. He was literally at my fingertips. I stroked his dick with my other hand giving him complete stimulation – inside and out. I felt his balls tighten up, quickly turning them into one tight piece of meat under his dick. And suddenly the tender piece of meat that I felt for the first time began to swell. His prostate filled up. Imagine an empty hot water bottle that is filled with water to capacity. It ballooned up and became firm as his dick became rock hard. I knew exactly what was going to happen. I put my mouth over his dick while continuing to massage his prostate and stroke his dick, and within seconds semen spilled into my mouth. I wasn’t surprised, I didn’t have to guess when the first shot would come. I instinctively knew what was about to happen. I caught every drop of my cum and pushed anything left in his shaft straight onto my tongue. I swished the warm fluid in my mouth, sweet and thick. I opened my mouth to showed him what he gave me and waited for him to roll his eyes back in his head before I swallowed his load. As I slowly pulled my finger out, Ryan cringed from the pain and whined for the entire 3 inches. I reminded him that it would only hurt for a second, as I pulled out after deflowering him. I got off the bed and let him lay there getting himself together, loving the fact I had another weapon in my arsenal I could use when pleasing him.