Piercing My Penis – Frenulum Piercing

Notice the metal ball placement on Ryan's penis
Notice the metal ball placement on the penis

Piercing My Penis – Frenulum Piercing

A frenulum piercing is a type of body piercing located on the underside of the shaft of the penis. A series of parallel frenulum piercings is known as a frenum ladder. A frenum ladder may be extended to include lorum piercings, hafada piercings and guiche piercings.

Frenum piercings generally require from two to five weeks to heal fully. Depending on the placement it may be a surface piercing, but due to both the vascular, fast healing nature of the penis, and loose nature of the skin in that area, frenum piercings rarely reject if pierced properly, although they may migrate.

Those wishing to stretch this piercing to accommodate larger gauge jewelry should wait until at least two weeks after the initial piercing has fully healed. It is common for a frenum piercing to start to close soon after the jewelry has been removed. A fairly recent piercing may start to close in less than an hour. Temporary removal and replacement (for example, to accommodate a partner who finds it uncomfortable) may mean reinserting with a smaller gauge and then restretching to get back to the original, larger gauge. This tendency for the piercing to close up will diminish over time.

 That was boring.

Anyway, for those of you reading the blog, in the past I have pierced my lip, tongue, nipple, guiche, penis in multiple areas, ears, and nose.  Which piercings do I have left?  My penis and nipple, and although I do not wear them, my ears still have their holes.  I suppose my tolerance is a bit higher than most, but the frenum piercing was by far the easiest.  I barely felt any pain and had sex the same night it was pierced.  Although I would not advise anyone to do that, because the new piercing can become infected with the bacteria and whatever else is inside your woman.  I didn’t get infected though.  Thank you Venice’s pussy.

Pros and Cons of Piercing My Penis – Frenulum Piercing

Notice how the metal ball moves
The metal ball moves perfectly to the tip.

So let’s go into the pros and cons of this piercing.

With the right jewelry this piercing can feel great while receiving a handjob or masturbating.   In the pictures I have posted with this blog, the metal ball placement can move up and down.  Each area the ball hits is highly sensitive, at least for me.  Both areas are my preferred spots when a woman licks my penis.   As a woman strokes you, the piercing jewelry will slide back and forth, tapping each spot.  The more aggressive the handjob, the more aggressive the balls bounces back and forth.

A playful woman can also enjoy the piercing.   Whether it be sucking on it or tangling it with her own tongue piercing, it adds a new dynamic to oral sex.  A woman can lick around it, move the piercing with her mouth, or just enjoy the new texture the piercing creates, whether it is in her mouth of vagina.   You may also find her fondling you through the night, rubbing the piercing and penis.  It’s aesthetic.  You may be the only man she has ever seen with a pierced penis, so she especially enjoys it

If you don’t have a large cock and consider yourself “average” in size, a piercing can set your penis apart from the rest of the pack.  Imagine a girl flirts and playfully asks about your penis.  Unless you are hung like a horse, the only other interesting thing you can say about it is that it’s pierced.  It creates an immediate interest.  Whether she likes the idea of a pierced penis or not, she now wants to see it.

Venice gets no real physical effects from my piercing, other than it hurts.  It feels like it scratches and tears her insides, but I have heard from other women who claim they absolutely love the feeling.  I have not experienced this though, as my penis piercing as done nothing for Venice physically.  All the pros mentioned above are the reason I kept it, because although Venice doesn’t like the feeling, she loves how it looks.  However, I have started taking the piercing out during any sexual activity (which will eventually lead to getting rid of the piercing).  As of 2017, I no longer have this piercing because it became too much of a burden to remove it prior to oral sex or anal. 

The cons are very simple.  If your partner deepthroats, she would definitely rather their be absolutely no piercings on your penis.   Venice doesn’t just deepthroat, she is an absolute cock freak when it comes to oral sex.  With that said, she prefers no piercing.   The piercing is worrisome. No piercing is worth Venice not being able to do what she wants with my penis.

Another huge con for us, no anal sex.  I am sure there are people out there doing this, but the anus is not a vagina.  The skin is not as durable, and a lot of times if you are not well lubed, a penis without a small metal object can tear up an ass.   Imagine what a penis with a piercing can do.  No anal, not if you are smart at least.

Being that our sex life consists or regular anal and oral sex, most of the time I no longer wear my penis piercing.  Really, at this point, the only thing it’s good for is a picture.   Speaking of, I have added a gallery below.

Different penis piercings:

Ampallang, Apadravya, Hafada, Foreskin, Deep shaft, Dolphin, Dydoe, Frenum, Frenum ladder, Lorum, Magic cross, Prince Albert, Reverse  Prince Albert, Transscrotal

Image gallery of Penis Piercing – The Frenulum

For a more in-depth look at all the pros and cons.  We have created a new blog on the topic, The Pros and Cons of Piercing Your Penis 

Photo Shoot – Project 31 Days of Swallowing Cum Shots

31 Days of Swallowing Cum Shots

Our 31 day cum shot challenge that went viral and inspired various articles from mainstream magazines and websites.  With all that attention we got cold feet and removed the photos.  The gift and the curse. However, things have calmed down and we have re-added a few of our favorites.  

After our “Merry XXXmas” photos, I knew I had to think of a new theme for the upcoming new year.  And what better way than to have “31 Days of Swallowing Cum Shots” for the month of January. Although his aim isn’t always the greatest and some may end up on my chest, lips, chin, nose, cheeks, hair, or eyes,  I am hoping to drink my husband’s cum for 31 days.

January 4 Cum Shot WM 2019The Plan:  31 Days of Swallowing Cum Shots

What I’ve perfected is making sure my husband’s balls are emptied out on a daily basis, sometimes twice. And because I ensure he cums, it seemed like a neat idea to share the different cum shots. Maybe I’ll even come up with new creative ways to swallow his cum.  I never get tired of making my husband cum.  As silly as it sounds, for me, it’s like a mini adventure getting him to orgasm.  And depending on where he is going to cum (e.g. my mouth, ass, or pussy) my dirty talk varies.  For these 31 days of swallowing cum shots, I anticipate he will go from pussy to mouth or ass to mouth as he cums.  This means if he’s going to have to move pretty quickly! And if he’s face fucking or if I’m deepthroating him, I have to keep myself from holding him down in my mouth and letting his cum shoot straight into my throat.  Why?  Because it wouldn’t be a very good photo shoot blog if we just had pictures of me and his dick totally dry because all of his cum is in my stomach right?

January 5 Cum Shot WM 2019The History: 31 Days of Swallowing Cum Shots

To be honest, I didn’t always eat cum with such a positive attitude.  I did it just to do it, but I didn’t have a strong interest or desire for it.  I understand why women don’t want to swallow their man’s cum because they don’t like the taste of semen.  But in my opinion, it’s like smoking a cigarette.  If you’ve ever smoked a cigarette, (even once and then never again) you coughed, gagged, maybe even spit up, maybe even so much so that you vowed to stay away from cigarettes once and for all.  Or you may have tried it again and again, succumbing to peer pressure and the need to fit in until eventually you develop an addiction to it.  My addiction has been one that came from the mutual understanding that my husband and I worship each other’s bodies.  I view everything about him as a temple.  The vitamins in his semen are a meal for me.  He keeps me alive.  Don’t feel sorry for me ladies.  I am not brainwashed.  My husband has a tattoo of my name on his penis, wears my used panties daily, and devotes himself and his time to me.  It’s how our circle works.  We have even made a cocktails with our bodies and drank a wonderful mix of each others’ body fluids.  

Sick huh? 

Love sick maybe.  And that’s just the tip of the iceberg.

January 8 Cum Shot wm 2019This state of mind has given me a new outlook on swallowing my  husband’s cum.  Because now it turns me on knowing my man’s juices are sitting in his body ready to explode inside me.  Before, when I was “normal”, I couldn’t even tell him I wanted to taste his cum.  I had too much pride.  I didn’t want to seem slutty or show excitement.  I can’t explain why.  But now I will beg for him to feed me his fluids.  I love his reaction when I tell him I want my breakfast to be whatever is in his ball sack.   I love the thrill of going wild over his cum – rubbing it all over my breasts, gargling it, and letting it drip out of the corners of my mouth and down my neck while he watches me.  

So let’s see what swallowing him for an entire month does for us.

31 Days of Swallowing Cum Shots

Cum shots never get old. I will show you 31 reasons why.

After the 31 days I will do a quick update here on how the month went, how it was to drink him for a full month, and all the little bloopers I am sure we will go through along the way.

Lazy Sunday Drip 03 wm.jpgThe Conclusion:  31 Days of Swallowing Cum Shots

Since this project, we have turned our life into a intimacy project.  I make my husband cum twice a day, as a intimacy ritual.  We call this Our Circle.  Since this post, as of December 2019, we have been intimate twice a day, every day, since the publishing of this original blog in January 2013.   How is that for a challenge?  A 7 years of swallowing his cum twice a day challenge?  Although a bit of an exaggeration, we alternate where my husband cum goes.  By the way, obviously we do not participate in No Nut November.

 

 

Video: Venice Bloggs Deepthroating Ryan.

 

If you are familiar with our blog then you know we are 100% amateur and do this out of hobby.  We’ve also learned that doing this type of thing together brings us closer together as well.  No skeletons or secret desires, no hidden flirting or crushes the other doesn’t know about.  We lay everything on the table and interact in front of the other so we can both enjoy the little compliments he or I get.

On this shoot we placed a video camera in front of my face while I wore a mask.  We also had lights on over head as well as right in front of my face.  Halfway through the shoot the camera’s battery went dead!   🙁   After the camera went dead Ryan turned me over and face fucked me on camera until he came deep in my throat, unfortunately that footage was never recorded.

We did record a video last night of me deepthroating him until he came, just to make up for our lost footage.  Again, UNFORTUNATELY, I was wearing a baseball cap so each time  I deepthroat all you see is my stupid hat.  I like to hold my head down on him for minutes at a time and massage his penis with my throat movement, so all the camera shows is this dumb black hat.   GRRRR.  Like I said, we are 100% amateur.

Enjoy.

 

Our Naughty Friends Give Us a Photo Shot Out

Since we started sexblogging.com we have met some freaky couples, crazy singles, and overall nice people.  Most of our socialization comes in the form of xhamster and twitter, so we have included with each photo their xhamster or twitter names.   We would love for other great singles and/or couples that enjoy our blog an stories to show us their creative side and send us their own photo shot out.   It can help cross promote your own twitter page as well as let some of our blog readers know how freaky and crazy our friends can get!

For the first man that can write http://sexblogging.com on his penis I will do absolutely nothing for you, as God has already done enough.

You can submit a photo to our email via our contact page or post it on twitter with our name, @sexblogging in the message.

Photo Shoots Gone Wild

Eggnog teardrops and pink balls
Eggnog teardrops and pink balls

Don’t let the title fool you. This blog will not end up with 18-year-old white girls flashing their titties to us on webcam for e-beads.  This blog is more of a warning for guys out there married to an Asian wife who has wild ideas and a slight case of OCD.  Do not start a month long photo shoot unless you mean it.

I remember starting the XXXmas photo shoot thinking it was going to be fun and something we do for like five minutes a day.   Boy, was I wrong.  In fact, after the first photo shoot of me aiming my penis at a cookie and letting my liquids flow, watching Venice eat the entire cookie, and then dipping my dick in milk as she sipped, I was satisfied.   Maybe I just wanted to see her eat my juices off a cookie, which was actually a first for us, I think.  I am not counting the time I came in her ice cream and watched her lick it off her spoon, because technically ice cream is not food.  It’s more of a frozen liquid.   Anyway, after the December 1, 2012 cookie photo shoot, I could have went on with the rest of the month and never touched a camera again.  However, Venice had different plans.

Tonight, I come home and Venice had purchased a half gallon of eggnog, a baby medicine dropper/mini baster, and two rolls of gift wrap.   As the night went on, I noticed she had taped two pink ornament/balls to each gift wrap, about seven inches down (Apparently Santa is the man!).   She put our life size Santa Claus upstairs and asked me to put on my Santa outfit.  A little tired, I asked if she was sure she wanted to do all that.  She excitedly motioned for me to hurry up.

So I walk upstairs and I see her down on her knees nude, placing the gift wrap near her mouth, giving our life size Santa a huge gift wrapper penis.  I laughed and thought it was extremely creative.  I set up the lighting, and spent the next ten minutes getting things focused and ready.  After a quick test run using the timer, I stood on the other side of Santa and we held our gift wrapper dicks in Venice’s face.  After she was satisfied with our positions, she asked me to grab the eggnog she had placed in her mini baster and squirt it on her.   Uncertain as to what she wanted, I put a little on her chin.  She looked at me and said, “Oh my God, is that how you cum on my face, Ryan?  Is that how Santa would cum on my face?  Blast me with it!”

I interrupted her and said, “Hopefully if Santa was to cum on your face it would turn into snow flakes in mid air, or possibly magic fairy dust with little elves dancing around your head singing Christmas carols before they nicely vanish leaving no mess at all.”

Venice rolled her eyes, ignoring my comment. “Squirt it all over my chest, my nose, and my eyes. Do it right.”   I did what she said, but was unsure about squirting the eggnog in her eyes so I didn’t.  I motioned like I was finished and tried putting the mini baster down.  She grabbed my arm and demanded, “My eyes, Ryan, make me cry eggnog sperm.”

Listen, although this blog was done tongue in cheek, when is the last time your wife asked you to squirt eggnog in her eyes, while mock sucking two Santa Clauses at once?

Exactly.