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April 25, 2014

The Little Things: Bras and Boat Shoes

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Boat ShoesWhen someone asks you why you love him, it’s difficult to pinpoint the ways in which he brings joy into your life.  It’s easy enough to say, “Because you love me for who I am” or “Because no one makes me laugh like you do.”  Well, obviously.  For me, it’s not two or three things, but rather many, many small reasons that make our relationship unique and quirky. 

This past Monday, Ryan got off work early and headed to the mall.  He usually heads straight home or to the grocery store on these days.  But when he got to the mall, he called me while I was still at work.

“Hey, V…guess what?”

“What is it?”  I asked.

“I’m at the mall and I found a bra I think you’d like.”

“Really!  How does it look?”

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March 27, 2014

A Day Off Turned Into A Month Off

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Gamer coupleSo a day off turned into a week off.  Then a week off turned into a month off.  Looking at our blog in the last few months I have noticed that we’ve slowed down a whole lot.  There are a few reasons why, and I guess I will spend some time explaining a few. 

One, the topics of threesomes got a bit stale and since we are still currently hooking up with a few regulars there isn’t much else to say.  Regrets or problems?  None.

Two, we dealt with a problematic blog reader that seemed to enjoy drama.   Think, flirting online just to tease her husband and then trying to get caught flirting so she can see if her husband gets jealous.  Thankfully we navigate through those situations fairly easy.  Thank you middle school for teaching us how to deal with these types of things.  With our life and blog posted for the world to read, we’ve had to learn how to handle random situations that we never thought we’d have to deal with.  Although it is fun and exciting, we prefer to stay away from drama if at all possible.  For all future husbands and boyfriends, if your wife/girlfirend reaches out and flirts with us, check your wife/girlfriend, not us.  We aren’t going to filter out the crazies from the normal and we try to be friendly with everyone.   We aren’t your problem, your wife/girlfriend/or yourself is the problem.  Work on that.

I not only want to thank middle school but I’d also like to thank the block features on our server and on Twitter.  

Three, we didn’t want to bring the blog back full circle and start talking about our more vanilla lifestyle.  We’re unsure if our readers want to hear about Venice learning to deepthroat again or us having normal missionary sex each day.   Because yes, our sex life is actually extremely vanilla.  With each other, we’ve never really had limits, but hooking up with other girls doesn’t define us as who we are.  In life, in this blog, or in our love.  To me, as much as we have written about our experiences, a threesome is nothing more than foreplay.   I personally get a thrill from the experience of another person in our bedroom, but the only sexual satisfaction I get it when I am with my wife later.  Whether it be comfort, not really turning my mind on to the experience, or the fact I am driven by an emotional connection.  The only time I feel any emotional connection is when me and my wife kiss during a threesome or when we are alone together. 

Four, we both tend to go through different hobbies and phases together.  Right now, we are doing something else together that is the exact opposite of a sex blog.   We now take up all our free time playing games together on side by side PCs.   Yes, we’re gaming nerds.  We will leave a game and tell our gaming clan to give us a moment to freshen up or run some errands, go fuck each others’ brains out, possibly have a threesome, then log back in and raid a base together.  We used to chat back and forth about different blog articles or what sexy picture to take next, but now we chat back and forth about what game we are going to play and how we are going to take over the world.  It’s what best friends do.

So, what does all that mean?   I think we will bring the blog back full circle and focus on various topics, even if they seem a bit boring or vanilla.  However, we will still talk about the mental developments we’ve had dealing with a third person.  We’re still growing a lot.

I’d also like to start back with Wednesday Snapshots as those pictures have always been my favorites. 

February 6, 2014

Threesome Memoirs – The Naughty Lunch Break

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For months now, I’ve been practicing my girl-on-girl game.  I was confident in the way I could look at a woman’s body and tell her that she looked gorgeous; that was my first step – a pivotal one – in accepting my bicuriosity.  Although I knew this bicuriosity was building in me, it wasn’t until my first female kiss (and eventually sharing my first female lover with Ryan) that I knew it wasn’t just curiousity, but I was truly bisexual in every way.

Recently I was at Victoria’s Secret because of a panty sale.  I’m lucky to have a VS close by and Ryan loves to know I am always sexy underneath my professional work attire.  So if there’s a good sale, I’m there.  The front display was surrounded by other eager ladies in a polite game of musical panties.  My eyes glanced across each cubby, assessing the exact styles and colors in my size.  I tried to work fast; it was cutthroat.  There was a woman with long, red hair to my right and another woman between us.  I made eye contact with them both and smiled.  As I was looking at a multicolored lace pair, the woman between us held up a pair that was in her hands.  Ooh, super cute, I thought to myself.  Put that down, that doesn’t fit you. I grinned.  On one of the ass cheeks was some flirtatious words that obviously did not appeal to her.

“Oh my,” she said as she looked at me.  “I don’t think I want to wear something like this,” she said with a look that could have set women’s suffrage back 100 years.  Me?  I believe in the 19th amendment and the right to vote.

She walked away from us and the woman with the red hair rolled her eyes.  I tried to contain my laughter as I said, “She needs to do her lingerie shopping in the men’s pajama pants section and stay out of this store.”

“You got that right.  I’d buy one of everything here.”  She was a petite little thing and one of the first thoughts I had was: I wonder what her ass looks like in thongs?

“Girl, you’re reading my mind,” I exclaimed as I moved closer to her so that our arms touched.  “Let me see what you got.”  She had a few boy shorts, some hip huggers, and a laced thong.  I held up the pairs I had in my hands and the rest is, as they say, history.

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January 27, 2014

Threesome Memoirs – Giving Him A Double Blow Job

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bjSo far Ryan and I have had fairly positive experiences – for the most part. Do we regret doing anything we’ve done?  Not really.  I find purpose in every act in which Ryan and I have partook.  Every act, each person, all experiences – all were worth doing if it meant my man and I came away closer than before having done it.

For me, my absolute favorite thing to do in a threesome is the double blow job.  In fact, this is something I feel totally at ease with, and since I do, I can enjoy every aspect of it.  Since first revealing this to Ryan, he has asked me numerous times, “Why do you like double bjs so much?”  Rather than answer, “I just do.”  I felt we both needed a more thorough explanation as it helps to understand the female psyche (or at least mine) during this act which should otherwise be considered sacred by keeping it solely between husband and wife.

Let me begin by saying, for strictly monogamous couples, I believe a woman should do everything in her power to give her man the greatest blow job.  I may not be the best bj giver, but I know what my husband likes (enthusiasm, dirty talk, and variety in speed, content, and option for places to ejaculate, to name a few).  I, myself, have come to understand how to give Ryan the most visually stimulating as well as physically satisfying blow job.  The confidence I have knowing what he wants reflects my actions and attitude when another woman is helping me please my man.

Being a cheerleader.  I am excited, grateful, aroused – all of these things – when there’s a woman in my bedroom.  But since she’s the outside party, I do my best to make her feel safe and welcome.  If I were in her position, I imagine I would feel unsure of what was expected of me.  I would feel awkward, especially not knowing if there were boundaries that the other couple has discussed prior to me being there.  Since they take a chance at looking foolish I definitely do not want her to feel unwelcome. The most basic and probably most supporting thing I can do is to encourage her from the get go.  I can’t tell you how many times I’ve told the other woman, “Good girl,” “You look so fucking sexy with that dick in your mouth,” or “I love how that cock slides between your lips.”

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January 17, 2014

Threesome Memoirs – A Threesome From Every Perspective – Our First Friend

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Venice’s experience:

Usually with our threesome experiences we deal with women we have only known for a short period or only few months.  However, we do know a few ladies who we have known since the beginning of our threesome journey, that either played the role of the more experienced mentor or we just had too much distance between us to ever physically connect.   In this case, our friend Lexxi, is someone we have have known for a long time, but the distance between us was too great for anything other than her giving Ryan and I advice on our journey.  We were always grateful for her input, and of course, we were both attracted to her as a person.  Other problems?  Oh yea, I forgot to mention she was married and we were also good friends with her husband, who has played a role as Ryan’s mentor and has even been quoted by Ryan in different blogs he has written.  So, having a threesome was never really an option.

After months of talking about soft swinging or threesomes, we all got more familiar with one another.  Although hard swinging, which is full swapping, was always a hard boundary we were not interested in, soft swinging, where we would open our bedroom to another couple simply to watch them play with each other while we did the same, was something that piqued our curiosity.  Honestly, at first, this was our original goal.  I do not think it was because we wanted to swing, but we both felt like we were exhibitionists and wanted to share our sexual experiences while another couple watched.  I just wanted to see another woman.  Through the website, starting with deepthroating videos, we eventually recorded ourselves having sex and submitted these videos to porn websites, which in total, probably got us near a million views.  Whether we purposely did it or not, we became soft swingers to every couple that ever watched our videos and knew us personally.  They could talk to us, see our sex videos, and in essence, get turned on by what they saw.  This was really like new-age soft swinging.  However, because of me not wanting to be watched or around another man, the idea of soft swinging eventually faded.  I have since blogged about how I felt like I was a lesbian married to Ryan.  It’s true, but it’s not true.  I like men, and I know that I could only live the rest of my life with a man.  However, those areas of my heart and mind are taken.  I have no desire to experience another man, no fantasies, and therefore my only focus is on other women.  Do I really feel like a lesbian?  Absolutely not, but that is the best way I can describe what I feel.

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