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A survey was done of 200 women and the charts below are picture comparisons and graphs from all the data collected. After we share these pictures, I will share my own thoughts and experiences through photos.
Continue Reading The Woman’s Perspective and Experience With Various Penis Sizes
Prostate [pros-teyt] (from the Greek word προστάτης, prostates, literally “one who stands before”, “protector”, “guardian”)
If you’re not familiar with the prostate, it is a gland surrounding the neck of the bladder in men. The prostate releases alkalinic prostatic fluid, which is part of the semen and is secreted during ejaculation. Prostatic fluid constitutes about 30% of the semen volume (along with spermatazoa and seminal vesicle fluid). The Prostate is about the size of a walnut and surrounds the urethra just below the urinary bladder. The prostate and be massaged and felt through the rectum. The overall alkalinity of semen helps to neutralize the acidity of the vaginal tract, prolonging the life span of sperm
Continue Reading Giving A Prostate Massage From HER Perspective
Below is an interesting article about the Yoni massage by Psalm Isadora. A Yoni massage is just a fancy way of saying a “vagina massage.” I will add my own opinion to various parts of the article so our readers can get another female’s perspective on the different things being said. Although the article is great, as was Psalm Isadora who passed away last year, there isn’t one technique that works on all women, and no matter how well thought out these techniques are, every manual to your lover should be exclusive and unique to what she enjoys.
The vagina is called yoni in Sanskrit ( standardized dialect of Old Indo-Aryan) and loosely translates to “a sacred space.” In Tantra philosophy, they approach the vagina from a place of the utmost love and respect. Yoni massage is a practice intended to truly honor a woman, to give her selfless pleasure, and to explore the sacred side of our sexuality.
This isn’t about having one orgasm. It’s about trying to feel more and more pleasure that will become waves of multiple orgasms throughout the massage. It can be done alone, or done by a partner, either individually or as foreplay to lovemaking.
It’s especially beneficial for women who have never had orgasms. The Yoni massage allows you time to slowly explore your body in a more sensual way. It can also help women who have one orgasm and feel finished to achieve multiple orgasms. It can be very healing for those who have suffered sexual trauma in their past, because the approach and technique is all about giving to the woman—making her feel loved, cherished, worshiped, and honored.
Continue Reading The Yoni Massage – Worshipping The Vagina (A Woman’s Perspective)
Although I don’t think there is anything wrong with a man having, or not having body hair, I do think that it’s a matter of preference. For what makes him comfortable, and for what she is attracted to. For a long time, I associated body hair on a man with being “clean and hygienic.” I felt a clean shaven body was something some men decided to do to show a possible mate that they take care of themselves. Clean smelling, smooth shaven. Feeling a smooth body, stomach, crotch, balls, and ass meant a man took the time to groom himself. After all, we’re humans, not apes, which meant men no longer needed body hair to keep themselves warm or to have their hair stand on end to make them a bigger to threat to their enemies. Evolutionary speaking, body hair just seems unnecessary in modern times.
I didn’t always feel this way. When I first met Ryan I didn’t care about body hair one way or the other. I met Ryan when I was young and other than on television or on the beach, I hadn’t seen a man’s body enough to create a personal preference. I just know I wanted one. I do remember the first time Ryan and I snuck into my room while my parents were at work and had sex. Later, after he left, I found his body hairs on my sheets. Instead of being grossed out, I remember picking them up and saving them in a container. Although this was over 20 years ago, I do feel this says something about my perception of body hair before I was married. Not only did I like body hair, I thought it was sexy and saved it as a memento to knowing he was in my bed with me.
Flash forward a few years. Unlike first meeting a man and not caring if he has hair on his body or not, marriage creates a new monster. You mean I can turn my man into a Ken doll and he will go along with it? I can make his penis look like a dildo, clean shaven, and not deal with all the body hair? Well shoot, let me go buy him some extra razors then!
That isn’t the whole truth, but it’s partially correct. In our relationship, Ryan was kind of on the frontier of shaving. I think the first thing he ever shaved / trimmed was his ass hair. He has always been extremely picky about this area of his body and has kept it groomed because he didn’t feel it was clean after using the bathroom. He would later shave it totally clean and even take showers after using the restroom (which he still does). He is very ANAL about his anus.
Over the years we have used RSS Feeds and other methods to read random articles regarding Love, Sex, and Relationships. Most of the time we will add our opinions to them, usually agreeing for the most part. After reading the following article, we have decided to add a new idea called “Trash Articles”. Although this is our opinion, a lot of times the internet and blogs are used to create lists simply for click bait purposes and keywords. That’s it. Some of these articles are trash and deserve to be called out.
You feel like a better version of yourself when you’re in a healthy, mature relationship. That doesn’t mean your partner completes you, but they do complement your life in just the right way.
What are some other signs that you’re in the right relationship? Below, marriage experts share seven key differences between a healthy relationship and a toxic one.
1. You’re free to pursue your hobbies and maintain friendships.
Nothing about your core identity should change drastically because of your new relationship status. A mature partner will recognize that pursuing outside interests is necessary and a healthy way to get some air from the relationship, said Kari Carroll, a couples therapist in Portland, Oregon.
“When a partner is too attached to allow you to enjoy something on your own, it can lead to sacrificing one’s own identity to appease the relationship,” she said. “If your partner has fears about you doing things on your own, it could turn into the self-fulfilling prophecy. In other words, you may ultimately seek even more space and leave.”
In school books, I’m sure this seems like pretty intelligent stuffs. I mean, you should be able to find your soul mate and still do everything you did without them. Nothing wrong with keeping the same friends either, ex boyfriends, best friends that you had one drunken night with, flings that became friends, or just your toxic single friends that enjoy lady nights (or night out with the fellas) and hanging out. Why wouldn’t you? I mean, who doesn’t want to keep celebrating ladies night right? This isn’t toxic at all.
/sarcasm
When you find a life partner it should be your goal to become one person with him/her. Although having your own hobbies isn’t a bad thing, there isn’t anything toxic about two people becoming one and sharing everything together. Sharing hobbies, sharing friends, and keeping a strong circle is the most important part of a relationship. And although the books may suggest otherwise, 20 years of a very good marriage is what matters. I’d argue keeping your hobbies you had while single, the same friendships while single, once you find a partner you love and want to spend the rest of your life with, is the most toxic thing in a relationship. Lack of commitment, wanting to maintain your single lifestyle, yet have the advantages of marriage. Although this can be spun both ways, I am spinning this behavior as selfish. And selfishness in marriages ends up in divorce court. Selfishness with your love and attention, ends up on “Relationship Goal” meme posters.
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