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February 15, 2023

Dirty Talk: Husband Has Sex With A Man In My Backseat While I Drive

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Dirty Talk:  Husband Has Sex With A Man In My Backseat While I Drive

The Dirty Talk Intro & Disclaimer:  Everything in the story below about my husband having sex with a man is random and created on the spot while massaging and giving a handjob to him.  No filters, no rules, no boundaries; just a story and situation created to help my husband orgasm and enjoy our experience together.  We do this for intimacy and find handjobs less destructive on our bodies than having sex daily (our bodies just can’t handle penetrative sex each day).   All dirty talk is usually pure fantasy.  I use this dirty talk as a form of mental porn for my husband while he is in a vulnerable state due to being touched and massaged.  Sexual intimacy can also help reduce feelings of anxiety and depression as it triggers the release of three mood-boosting chemicals — dopamine, endorphins and oxytocin.  I usually also get really wet because my own naughty thoughts push my own personal boundaries and really turn me on.  This is why it’s so fun.  Unlike giving a blowjob or going through the theatrics of sex, you both connect thoughts together and create sexual stories in the heat of the moment.  He trusts me and we both love this natural vulnerability.  I can almost get inside his head and control his fantasies, dirty thoughts, and talk him into an orgasm in the exact moment my story hits it’s climax.  During my stories he will ask me questions while I talk.  I will include these to the best of my memory.  In fact, every story is to the best of my memory, as I do not know remember all the exact details.   

 

Dirty Talk: Husband Has Sex With A Man In My Backseat While I Drive

Sometimes when I massage my husband and talk dirty to him I like to press his limits and force him to be open to every idea.  And when I say every idea, I mean every idea.  My husband knows I love gay porn, it’s something I have always been very open about with everyone.  Not just him, just in general.  If we are hanging out with other adults, in good company, maybe sipping a bit.  If the topic of porn comes up, I usually mention that I prefer gay or lesbian porn.  It’s also a pretty safe answer.  Because if I said, “I like seeing women get banged and bukkake’d by 7 guys,” that wouldn’t be very lady like.  And no matter how I come off in these blog postings, in person, I try to always be a lady.  I was raised in a conservative Asian family and naturally I don’t open up unless I am with those I feel close with.  Which isn’t many people.
 

However, my husband gets the naughtiest version of me.  And tonight I want watch him orgasm to the possibility of a gay experience.  

 

My Husband Has Sex With A Man

How about we make a date with a guy and I drive you to see him?
 
My husband is still soft, but his dick rushes with blood knowing I am going to take him down a forbidden path.
 
what do you mean?
 
I mean, how would you feel if I drove you around and listened to a guy suck your dick in the backseat?
 
would that turn you on?
 
His dick is already hard, so I already know it turns him on.
 
Yes, that would really turn me on.  I would watch in the rear-view mirror and roll around town until I knew you finished.   
 
tell me about it…
First we would pick up the guy together and he would know in advance that I am your wife and I want to listen to you get your dick sucked.   He gets in the car, nervous, and I don’t say a word.  He closes the door and I start riding around town, with no real direction.   
 
do you want me to talk or just pull
 my dick out?

I want you to immediately just pull your dick out and push his head down towards it.  I don’t want to hear you talk to him.  I just want to hear his mouth sliding up and down your dick.  I want to look in the rear-view and see his head in your lap.  I want to hear you moan as your dick grows.
 
you want me to talk to you so you know what’s going on?
 
Yes, please.  Talk to me so I can listen in detail.  I want to hear how deep he is taking your dick.  If his mouth feels warm, tell me so I can hear what you are feeling. 
 
I will…
 
I want you to tell him to take off his clothes so I can see his body.  I want to see his dick grow.  I want to see how hard he gets when he is sucking your dick and being held in your lap.
 
do you want me to grab his dick and stroke him while he sucks me?
 
Yeah, I want to see you stroke him.  I want to see you rubbing his balls and touching his body while he tries to get you to cum in his mouth.   Make him lay his body flat and spread his legs, while you arch your body up and fuck his face. 
 
would it make you horny?
 
I’d be so fucking horny knowing you were in the backseat getting your dick sucked by another man.  
 
you’d want to see me fuck him too?
 
My husband is now rubbing both of his nipples and moving his hips into my hands, like he is using my palms as another man’s mouth.
 
Yes.  But I don’t want to see you get fucked.  I just want to hear him get fucked and take all of your dick.  I don’t want you to be gentle.  Don’t go slow.  I want you to be rough and really shove your entire dick inside him in one deep motion.  I want to hear him yell and tell you take it easy.  I want you to make him whine and cry while I listen.
 
where would you want me to cum?
 
Inside him.  I want you to fuck him raw and cum inside his ass.
 
would it make you jealous?
 
No, it would make me wet.  I would love to see you breed another man and put your cum inside his body. Make him yours. I’d turn around and watch your ass moving up and down on top of his body.  I’d watch your balls slapping against him while you pound his little hole. 
 
be careful, you’re going to be driving…
 
So cute, he is on the edge of an orgasm and he is so caught up in the visualization that he is worried about his safety!  No condom? No big deal!  Strange man sucking his dick?  No big deal!  Worried I am not watching the road and speeding?  Big deal!  LOL,  I love this man.
 
I’d have a hard time driving because everything inside me would want to stop the car and just watch everything that is going on, especially your balls twitching while you cum inside him.  I’d want to see you pull out and all of your cum gushes out of his hole.  That would turn me on so much…
 
let me cum on myself…
 
Before he could say more, my husband grabbed his dick out of my hand and stroked his cum all over himself.  Something about my gay stories makes him want to shoot cum everywhere.  His sperm launches up to his chest and shoulder. 
 
When he is done, his body drops back into my lap and I can feel the sweat on his ass on top of my legs.  I slowly go down on him and lick his cum off his hairy stomach and crotch.  No matter where he finishes, I always clean his body.   husband has sex with man
 
For other couples, it’s totally okay to dive into things you may never want to really experience, with your minds.  We read this a lot on relationship forums.  Sometimes it creates mixed signals, sometimes it creates insecurities.  So talk to your partner, let them know a fantasy is just a fantasy, and assure them it will never go beyond that.  It can be fun, kinky, and let you explore ideas you never thought you’d talk about with anyone else.  You’ll be surprised what an open mind and dialogue can lead to. 
February 8, 2023

Cuddle Positions – Binky

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cuddlingAlthough the illustration looks like an actual blowjob, you can sleep this way as well.  We call this position the “binky” because a woman can put her man’s penis in her mouth like a pacifier and relax and fall asleep.  The man can also rub her back, touch her ass, and hold her head gently to make her feel comfortable.  This is a great position to relax.  We’ve also used this position to sit on our phones and browse social media together.  

Pros & Cons
+ The man enjoys this position because he can fall asleep with his flaccid penis in his woman’s mouth.
+ Most women love their backs massaged and rubbed.  This is a great position to rub and massage her back.
+ You can use your hands to browse social media.

– If your woman grinds her teeth while she sleeps, be careful! 

 

Why is Cuddling so important?

When you cuddle with someone you care about, your body releases a hormone called oxytocin that calms you and makes you more likely to deal better with stress.  Cuddling also has a large connection with being nurtured.   It has been shown through research that cuddling helps an infant develop an attachment to his/her parent.  This is instinctual and as you grow older, adults can cuddle to form this same attachment.  Cuddling has also been shown to boost an infant’s oxygen levels, calm its breathing, and ease pain signals. And for an underweight baby, it raises survival chances by more than a third. It helps the brain grow and makes infection and other illnesses, like hypoglycemia or hypothermia, less likely.   This is why we love to cuddle.   

Benefits to our bodies from cuddling

  • Ease Stress
    • When you cuddle with someone you care about, your body releases a hormone called oxytocin that calms you and makes you more likely to deal better with stress. 
  • Helps Your Heart
    • It’s good for your heart.  Cuddling lowers blood pressure. Scientists say it’s clearer that women get this benefit from cuddling, but it seems to be true for both sexes.
  • Relieves Pain
    • A good cuddle may give you more than just moral support after an injury. The oxytocin cuddling releases can help block pain signals. 
  • Fight Colds
    • Too much stress effects the immune system.  Hugs from people you trust may protect you against this common virus, especially if you’re under a lot of stress. And if you’re already sick, more cuddling might keep your symptoms from getting worse.
  • Connects You to Your Partner
    • Oxytocin is sometimes called the love hormone.  Whether having sex, cuddling, touching, dancing, or holding hands, your body is releasing oxytocin.  Couples who cuddle and kiss freely tend to be happier, healthier, and less stressed.
  • Helps You Sleep
    • Oxytocin is the key ingredient again. Because of oxytocin calming effects, it relaxes you and helps you sleep.

Benefits to cuddling your partner

  • Cuddling improves satisfaction in relationships. 
    • In an experimental study, increased cuddling for married couples resulted in statistically higher relationship satisfaction. This finding was particularly notable as the couples who increased their cuddling behaviors were compared to couples who increased time spent together over mealtimes and those who did not change their behavior.
  • Cuddling helps maintain focus on your partner. 
    • In the same study, with increased cuddling, the focus is honed in on our romantic partner as opposed to thinking “what else is out there?”
  • Cuddling releases oxytocin and promotes positive emotions. 
    • Affectionate touch behaviors release oxytocin.  Oxytocin is a natural love hormone that helps us feel closer to our partners. When we cuddle, we feel a surge of positive emotions such as love, adoration, and trust. While cuddling typically occurs around sexual activity, it is perceived to be a nurturing type of behavior rather than a sexual one.
  • Cuddling after sex benefits your relationship. 
    • In a longitudinal study, the duration and quality of post-sex affection including cuddling are related to greater subsequent reports of relationship and sexual satisfaction.  Couples can use this time to be close to each other physically and emotionally, sharing their thoughts and feelings, or not saying anything at all.

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February 1, 2023

Q&A: I had a threesome with my boyfriend and his friend and now he’s devastated that I enjoyed myself.

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Q&A: I had a threesome with my boyfriend and his friend and now he’s devastated that I enjoyed myself.

I am 24 and my boyfriend is 25.  We have been together for 3 years. We have explored plenty in our sex life, including FMF threesomes which were fun. In the past I was really curious about giving MFM a try but he wasn’t comfortable with that so we didn’t discuss it further.

A few months ago he asked me if I’d be interested in a 3some with his longtime friend. For some context, they always had this weird competitive/friendly rivalry thing going on. My boyfriend straight up admitted that he wanted to prove to his friend that he fucks better. I thought that was a questionable reason to agree to a 3some but he REALLY wanted to do this. He’s the most confident guy I know and I genuinely thought he knew what he was doing.

Fast forward to the 3some. It was by far the best sexual experience I’ve ever had. I was pretty much spoiled from start to finish and my boyfriend was clearly enjoying it too. His friend is physically attractive so that definitely added to the sexual chemistry. At one point he also ate me out and I came a lot (I’ve never orgasmed from receiving oral, I don’t think I ever would). I found the dirty talk super hot as well (he was dominant despite the submissive act) and it turned me on a lot.

At no point were discussed boundaries ever crossed.

The following day my boyfriend seemed to be in complete shock. He didn’t talk to me much and when he did, he made no eye contact whatsoever. Afterwards he became withdrawn and depressed. Like he would stay in bed all day and just stare at the wall or something. Every time I saw him he was literally doing nothing, which is completely out of character.

It’s gotten to the point friends and family asked me what happened to him!

A few days ago I asked him what’s wrong. At first he didn’t want to talk about it but then he confessed that he can’t get over our threesome. He refused to elaborate and just asked me odd questions. If I like his friend, if I think his friend is better in bed etc. I kept saying no to his ridiculous questions but he wasn’t satisfied. He even asked me if I still like him/want to be with him which was just odd.

He’s still morose and I’m worried that this whole thing had a serious impact on our relationship.

So what do I even do in this situation? I don’t understand why he’s so upset when he’s the one who suggested the idea in the first place. Can anyone help explain his thought process?!

Venice’s response to threesome with boyfriends friend

Having threesomes prior to marriage has never been something I supported.   I have always been a strong advocate of opening the door to other people when you are in a committed relationship and you have tried everything under the sun with just the two of you together.  However, some couples may decide to never get married, so I will add that 3 years just isn’t enough time.   There is just too much you can do with one another before adding another person into the mix.  

Let’s move on to the scenario you presented.  It was stupid.  To have a threesome with a guy your boyfriend is competitive with makes no sense at all.   In fact, I’d even suggest that this story sounds totally fabricated.  I say that because a competitive guy isn’t going to allow the friend he is most competitive with to sleep with his girlfriend.  It makes no sense.  The entire idea of being competitive is to have something or do something his friend can’t do.   Unless he was totally over your relationship and this was his exit plan.  I just have a hard time understanding why a competitive guy would want to have a threesome with his friend he is the most competitive with, to show he has sex better.   In the meantime, he is allowing his friend to have his most prized possession?   

Not likely.

If the story is true, stupid on you, stupid on him, and stupid on the friend.  Having threesomes to see who fucks better has to be the silliest shit I have ever heard.  That’s something you do with a hooker, not your girlfriend.

Ryan’s response to threesome with boyfriends friend

So you had a threesome to help your boyfriend prove that he was better at sex than his friend?  And in the process you enjoyed his friend so much that you had a first-time orgasm through oral sex with the friend?    

This is the classic, “be careful of what you wish for” scenario.   Most of the time these scenarios are created as a way to get attention or create some sort of lesson for guys that want a threesome.  Imagine allowing your friend to fuck  your girlfriend so you can show him who fucks better.  Dumb and dumber.

January 25, 2023

Naughty Selfies – Creampied on my lunch break and sent back to work with wet panties from front to back.

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Creampied on my lunch break and sent back to work soaked from front to back

The obligatory spiel about this section and our goal:  I’ll try to keep these selfies limited to new outfits, panties, and ideas, rather than the exact same poses and panties every day. Thankfully, I do change my panties! Unfortunately, until I learn how to stretch and morph my body into alien-like positions, I am a bit limited at what I can do with my camera! Either way, hopefully you guys have a great week and enjoy another edition of our naughty selfies. Today I will go into my selfies I took in the bathroom of my office with my panties soaked after I was creampied.    

Dear Naughty Selfie Diary: My husband sent me back to work after being creampied, soaking wet.

There is a reason why women are so attractive to men.  Men know that most wives in a healthy relationship sit around at work soaking in their man’s cum.  It doesn’t matter if we’re their boss, quiet, always professional…they still know we love cum.  We’re sexual, we smell good, we dress nice, and no matter how we act in public, they know we love soaking in sperm.  And this isn’t sexist, this is just how babies are born.  It’s reality.

Take a look around you when you are in a crowded place.  Look at the men:  Baggy jeans, cargo shorts, a baggy ugly t-shirt, some new balance shoes or flip flops, and just walking around looking like a clunky old car.  Now look at the women around you:  Leggings or yoga pants, tight shorts, tight jeans that shows all their curves and gaps, a top that can barely hide their breast shape, cute shoes, and their hair done.  Women are fucking gorgeous.  Everything about us is sexual, whether we like it or not.  

So I sit at work soaking wet, all the way down to my ass crack.  No matter how I move or switch positions, I still feel totally soaking wet I am from my husband’s lunch break release inside me. Not a single co-worker has a clue.  My perfume masks the smell of my panties being full of cum.  I smile when a client enters the room, I nod when a co-worker asks how my day is, and I sit with my legs and ass totally drenched from a lunch break session with my husband where he filled me up as full as my body can hold.  Clearly you can see that.

 

You can check out all my naughty selfies here!

 

January 18, 2023

The Advantages of Couples Who Have Sex While Drunk

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Sex While DrunkThe Advantages of Couples Who Have Sex While Drunk

There are a lot of articles online about the advantages of having sex while drunk, but most of them discuss the easing of sexual tension between people.  It’s known that alcohol lowers inhibitions and can help make easing into sex at the end of a date easier, or better.  It can also help with premature ejaculation, as you tend to focus less on getting your orgasm, and more on the experience.  As well as, alcohol seems to make the genitals a little less sensitive.  Our article will not go into that aspect.  I wanted to focus more on how alcohol can make sex better for a couple that is already committed and in a sexual relationship with each other.    

Let’s Get This Out of The Way First

There are obviously a lot of disadvantages to alcohol, specifically your health.  That’s why we stress drinking in moderation.  We also are a blog that focuses more on sex and life as a couple, not sex from a single person’s perspective.  Neither of us drank while single, as we were too young.  However, we have researched various articles that mention alcohol leads to some women regretting their decisions while drunk, lowering their standards of who they sleep with, and that being tipsy makes it easier to be taken advantage of.  Not good.  Men on the other hand, just get a cool pair of beer goggles.  Either way, these disadvantages have nothing to do with our article, as we are talking about committed couples, alcohol, and better sex.  If my husband wants to wear beer goggles while fucking me, I’m okay with that.  After 25 years of marriage, I’ve learned beer goggles actually amplify all the positive things we see in each other, so it’s a good thing in a committed relationship!   

Cons:

  • Whiskey Dick – Whiskey dick refers to a temporary condition where a person cannot get or maintain an adequate erection after consuming too much alcohol.
  • Whiskey Clit – Whisky Clit refers to a temporary condition where a female takes much longer to get off due to too much alcohol consumption.  My husband once went down on me for 3 hours before I had an orgasm.  Wait, is whiskey clit really a con?    It wasn’t a con for me!  

 

Sex While DrunkDrunk Sex – Enthusiasm

A lot of experienced couples call sex while being drunk, “porn sex.”   The reason?  Because sex while drunk usually turns out to be “extra.”  The enthusiasm is different.  That dick you have sucked on 1000 times seems to be a lot larger, a lot more tasty, and whatever comes out of it will be the best thing you’ve tasted in the last year.  Rather than going down on your partner and your mind wandering off wondering what you will be doing at work the following day, you are caught up in the moment and love having them in your mouth.  So much so, you go above and beyond to show the man you are with how much you enjoy his dick.  I’d even go as far as suggesting that a lot of women deep throat their men for the first time while being  a bit tipsy.  It makes you extremely experimental.   It also might be the first time you vomit all over his dick.  And that’s okay too.

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