Dirty Talk: Husband Has Sex With A Man In My Backseat While I Drive

Dirty Talk:  Husband Has Sex With A Man In My Backseat While I Drive

The Dirty Talk Intro & Disclaimer:  Everything in the story below about my husband having sex with a man is random and created on the spot while massaging and giving a handjob to him.  No filters, no rules, no boundaries; just a story and situation created to help my husband orgasm and enjoy our experience together.  We do this for intimacy and find handjobs less destructive on our bodies than having sex daily (our bodies just can’t handle penetrative sex each day).   All dirty talk is usually pure fantasy.  I use this dirty talk as a form of mental porn for my husband while he is in a vulnerable state due to being touched and massaged.  Sexual intimacy can also help reduce feelings of anxiety and depression as it triggers the release of three mood-boosting chemicals — dopamine, endorphins and oxytocin.  I usually also get really wet because my own naughty thoughts push my own personal boundaries and really turn me on.  This is why it’s so fun.  Unlike giving a blowjob or going through the theatrics of sex, you both connect thoughts together and create sexual stories in the heat of the moment.  He trusts me and we both love this natural vulnerability.  I can almost get inside his head and control his fantasies, dirty thoughts, and talk him into an orgasm in the exact moment my story hits it’s climax.  During my stories he will ask me questions while I talk.  I will include these to the best of my memory.  In fact, every story is to the best of my memory, as I do not know remember all the exact details.   


Dirty Talk: Husband Has Sex With A Man In My Backseat While I Drive

Sometimes when I massage my husband and talk dirty to him I like to press his limits and force him to be open to every idea.  And when I say every idea, I mean every idea.  My husband knows I love gay porn, it’s something I have always been very open about with everyone.  Not just him, just in general.  If we are hanging out with other adults, in good company, maybe sipping a bit.  If the topic of porn comes up, I usually mention that I prefer gay or lesbian porn.  It’s also a pretty safe answer.  Because if I said, “I like seeing women get banged and bukkake’d by 7 guys,” that wouldn’t be very lady like.  And no matter how I come off in these blog postings, in person, I try to always be a lady.  I was raised in a conservative Asian family and naturally I don’t open up unless I am with those I feel close with.  Which isn’t many people.

However, my husband gets the naughtiest version of me.  And tonight I want watch him orgasm to the possibility of a gay experience.  


My Husband Has Sex With A Man

How about we make a date with a guy and I drive you to see him?
My husband is still soft, but his dick rushes with blood knowing I am going to take him down a forbidden path.
what do you mean?
I mean, how would you feel if I drove you around and listened to a guy suck your dick in the backseat?
would that turn you on?
His dick is already hard, so I already know it turns him on.
Yes, that would really turn me on.  I would watch in the rear-view mirror and roll around town until I knew you finished.   
tell me about it…
First we would pick up the guy together and he would know in advance that I am your wife and I want to listen to you get your dick sucked.   He gets in the car, nervous, and I don’t say a word.  He closes the door and I start riding around town, with no real direction.   
do you want me to talk or just pull
 my dick out?

I want you to immediately just pull your dick out and push his head down towards it.  I don’t want to hear you talk to him.  I just want to hear his mouth sliding up and down your dick.  I want to look in the rear-view and see his head in your lap.  I want to hear you moan as your dick grows.
you want me to talk to you so you know what’s going on?
Yes, please.  Talk to me so I can listen in detail.  I want to hear how deep he is taking your dick.  If his mouth feels warm, tell me so I can hear what you are feeling. 
I will…
I want you to tell him to take off his clothes so I can see his body.  I want to see his dick grow.  I want to see how hard he gets when he is sucking your dick and being held in your lap.
do you want me to grab his dick and stroke him while he sucks me?
Yeah, I want to see you stroke him.  I want to see you rubbing his balls and touching his body while he tries to get you to cum in his mouth.   Make him lay his body flat and spread his legs, while you arch your body up and fuck his face. 
would it make you horny?
I’d be so fucking horny knowing you were in the backseat getting your dick sucked by another man.  
you’d want to see me fuck him too?
My husband is now rubbing both of his nipples and moving his hips into my hands, like he is using my palms as another man’s mouth.
Yes.  But I don’t want to see you get fucked.  I just want to hear him get fucked and take all of your dick.  I don’t want you to be gentle.  Don’t go slow.  I want you to be rough and really shove your entire dick inside him in one deep motion.  I want to hear him yell and tell you take it easy.  I want you to make him whine and cry while I listen.
where would you want me to cum?
Inside him.  I want you to fuck him raw and cum inside his ass.
would it make you jealous?
No, it would make me wet.  I would love to see you breed another man and put your cum inside his body. Make him yours. I’d turn around and watch your ass moving up and down on top of his body.  I’d watch your balls slapping against him while you pound his little hole. 
be careful, you’re going to be driving…
So cute, he is on the edge of an orgasm and he is so caught up in the visualization that he is worried about his safety!  No condom? No big deal!  Strange man sucking his dick?  No big deal!  Worried I am not watching the road and speeding?  Big deal!  LOL,  I love this man.
I’d have a hard time driving because everything inside me would want to stop the car and just watch everything that is going on, especially your balls twitching while you cum inside him.  I’d want to see you pull out and all of your cum gushes out of his hole.  That would turn me on so much…
let me cum on myself…
Before he could say more, my husband grabbed his dick out of my hand and stroked his cum all over himself.  Something about my gay stories makes him want to shoot cum everywhere.  His sperm launches up to his chest and shoulder. 
When he is done, his body drops back into my lap and I can feel the sweat on his ass on top of my legs.  I slowly go down on him and lick his cum off his hairy stomach and crotch.  No matter where he finishes, I always clean his body.   husband has sex with man

For other couples, it’s totally okay to dive into things you may never want to really experience, with your minds.  We read this a lot on relationship forums.  Sometimes it creates mixed signals, sometimes it creates insecurities.  So talk to your partner, let them know a fantasy is just a fantasy, and assure them it will never go beyond that.  It can be fun, kinky, and let you explore ideas you never thought you’d talk about with anyone else.  You’ll be surprised what an open mind and dialogue can lead to. 

From not having orgasms as a teenage girl, to guaranteed orgasms as a woman.

Female Orgasm - Jada KaiFrom not having orgasms as a teenage girl, to guaranteed orgasms as a woman.

I can remember telling my husband when I first met him that I could not have orgasms.  I had played with shower heads, combs, and my fingers, but other than relaxing me, I wasn’t orgasmic.   The good thing is, I was naturally passive so I got a lot of pleasure from making him orgasm.  Although sex felt good, it wasn’t something I believe I could cum from.   Shortest blog ever?   End of story?

Well, I guess the story could end there if girls didn’t have stubborn men with egos and high sex drives.  Me not being able to achieve an orgasm was not something my future husband accepted.  After realizing oral sex was nothing like a shower head, a comb, or my fingers, orgasms was definitely something I could achieve.  However, it took my husband hours at a time staying down on me, not moving his head or body, no noise in the room (neighbors talking too loud next door or a dog barking could throw me off), and me laying as still as possible until I exploded.   The good news?  I was orgasmic!   The bad news?  It was probably very boring!  In fact, I have learned now being bisexual and really into women, most women cannot make me cum for this exact reason.  Truthfully, most of them do everything perfect.  The licking, sucking, and sometimes dig their tongues deep inside me.  But unlike porn, just because you do everything right, doesn’t mean I’m going to cum in minutes.  I’m definitely not.  In fact, I have only came once with another woman.   Although I never explained to her what I needed, she stayed down on me for well over an hour and was probably bored out of her mind!  But she did it!

Enter sex toys.

guaranteed orgasmPrior to sex toys my sex life consisted of my husband going down on me for probably an average of 45 minutes to an hour.   After I orgasmed, he would then have sex with me for his own orgasm.   We both knew I couldn’t cum through sex, so we just took turns.  And then one day we walked into a local sex shop and my life changed.  From toys that vibrate and suck on your clit, like the Satisfyer pro 2, to wands that make me convulse and twitch in seconds.

I remember coming home from the sex shop on that first night and holding a vibrator up to my clit while I was being fucked.  I came 9 times in about 10 minutes.    No longer was I not orgasmic through sex, I was now multi-orgasmic.  In fact, I’d say sex toys taught me how to relax my mind during sex and rather than needing my husband have to be a statue that didn’t move anything but his tongue, I trusted in the process.  This relaxation of the mind led me to be orgasmic through sex, without any extra toys and tools!

So I am a believer in finding a good sex toy to slowly teach yourself to relax.  It takes all the pressure off having an orgasm and tends to let things happen naturally (and quickly).  

Now, just because you have learned to make us orgasm, try not to ruin them once you’ve hit the promise land!


Q & A: What Are Some Creative Ways To Please My Wife Sexually?

boring sexQ & A: What Are Some Creative Ways To Please My Wife Sexually?

While checking my search history I found a reddit post from what appears to be my wife unhappy with our sex life  In searching around for things to spice up my marriage or find extreme things to try I happen to find your blog.   Although it is not my normal routine to email a sex blog, I figured why not.   Is there anything you can suggest for me to try with my wife in the bedroom, that isn’t too extreme, but not  boring?  Also, a bit embarrassing, I tend to orgasm quickly when we do have sex.  This is partially the reason that I have slowed down my sex life because it makes me feel insecure.  I guess I’d rather give her no sex rather than quick sex because I can’t control my ejaculation.   I know I just hit you with a load there, but any advice is appreciated.

Venice’s response  to please my wife sexually:

I actually laughed out loud reading “I just hit you with a load there…”  Oh boy.  You couldn’t even make it through the email without losing your load huh?

I’m joking!

There are so many things you can do to add an adventure to your bedroom.  Or how about, you journey outside your bedroom?  Nothing can make you feel more free during sex than walking on a beach and making out in the sand.   Or finding a nice private spot and having sex in your car.  It gets the adrenalin going and can be extremely fun.  

You can also try sex toys.  A vibrator or wand in the bedroom can be really fun.  It can also help with your premature ejaculation issue!  I will explain and demonstrate how.  Rather than getting on top of her and going full speed, lay to the side of her.  This sideways position will keep you from going too fast.   While sideways, let her use a vibrator or a wand on her body.  It will be easy for her to play with her clit while you lay to the side.  I believe that you will learn something new about your wife while she uses a wand.  She’s cums fast too!  Because the wand is no joke.  I have probably had an orgasm in 30 seconds while using a wand in this p0sition. 

So did I handle your load well?!  

Ryan’s response  to please my wife sexually:

One of the ways I would suggest is trying a hollow strap on!  Whether you are large, average, or small, this adds a whole new element to the bedroom.  If you are into role play, you can even talk to her about the idea of pretending to be someone else.  To add to the spice, suggest her wearing a blindfold so she can’t see you.  Her mind and imagination can be your greatest asset in the bedroom.  Slide on the hollow strap on, make sure she is lubricated properly, and give her a whole new sensation.  This may drive her wild.  It also can totally help with your premature ejaculation issue, as  you will have a lot less sensation while using this toy.

Disclaimer:  I have tried this with Venice and she eventually had to stop me.  The stretch was so intense that she just couldn’t handle it.  However, the sore feeling she felt for days afterwards kept her wet and horny.  She loved feeling like she had been totally fucked and stretched out.  

To be honest, it’s hard suggesting to another couple what is or isn’t boring in the bedroom. This is totally subjective.  I mean, I can think of 100s of things that can make your sex life much less boring, but those things may all be too extreme for you, or her.  My advice is to talk with her, find out the things she wants to try, ask her about her fantasies, and see if you can find ways to make her those things come true.  If you haven’t tried sex toys, ask her if she would like to try.  Really, as always, it comes down to communication.  She is asking her questions on reddit, you are asking your question on a sex blog.  You both need to sit down and ask each other these questions!   


Review: Pam & Tommy Lee Hardcore and Uncensored (Pamela Anderson)


I suppose you are wondering why anyone would review the Pamela Anderson and Tommy Lee sex tape 18 years later. Damn, 18 years later?!    Well, first of all, our entire site is based off real couples and real sex.  This video is a bit of both.  Also, it doesn’t feel right reviewing sex tapes or future sex tapes without at least writing our opinions about the godfather of them all. Yes, it’s a bit outdated but it has to be done.  The fun part is we have never really watched these videos so for us it’s still our first impressions.

 A bit of background for those of you that may have been underage or under a rock when this tape leaked.  Pamela Anderson and Tommy Lee had a sex tape of them on their honeymoon leak in 1995 after it was stolen from their home.  Anderson sued the video distribution company, Internet Entertainment Group. Ultimately, the Lees entered into a confidential settlement agreement with IEG. Thereafter, the company began making the tape available to subscribers to its web sites again, resulting in triple the normal traffic on the sites.

Another tape, which was made before the Tommy Lee tape, involving Anderson and musician Bret Michaels from Poison, was later announced, and an abridged version of less than 60 seconds appeared on the internet. Frames of the video first appeared in Penthouse magazine in March 1998. The tape was successfully blocked by Michaels, but a four-minute sex tape is still available on the Internet.

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