Unicorns and Their Safety During Threesomes
I am a 23 year old female and am meeting a couple for drinks next week after we matched and chatted on tinder. They are staying in a hotel nearby, as they are on holiday, and have indicated that we might end up back at the hotel if drinks go well.
Unicorns – how did you know you would be safe when you met couples for threesomes? Not just on a relationship boundaries level, but from purely a ‘will I get kidnapped/raped/killed?’ point of view?
I have often matched with couples on tinder and am keen to try a threesome, but the issue of being outnumbered always puts me off. I am normally pretty spontaneous, experimental and confident when it comes to dating, but some help and advice in this area would be great!
Venice’s response to safety during threesomes
I suppose you would take the same kind of precautions as if you were heading to any place that would have strangers and alcohol: let someone you know trust know where you’re going and the nature of the event.
My suggestion is to be on the phone (or even pretend) and when you arrive, say something like, “Alright, I’m here…gotta go. Talk to you later” to let them know that there are people who know your whereabouts. If you think about it, it’s the smart thing to do without letting people you don’t completely trust them. If you went to a club or party alone, you’d probably put it on your calendar, tell your friends (roommate, etc.), or maybe even on social media. I wouldn’t suggest bringing a gun or other type of weapon since that could backfire. However, in your situation, if you want to be discrete, you can ask the hotel’s front desk to call your phone at a certain time or call the room. No matter what you decide to do, being spontaneous doesn’t mean you have to be unsafe.
Ryan’s response to safety during threesomes
Statistically, I’d say meeting a man by himself is far more dangerous than meeting a couple. To get a man on social media that is a psychopath, is much more common than meeting two people, male and female, both psychopaths, both in agreement to do something illegal. Probably not likely. I’d say meeting a couple is the safest thing to do on social media, lol. Couples usually don’t serial kill and rape together. It has happened, but not even in the stratosphere as far as the number of men raping women by themselves.
We have met women before and we felt equally as unsafe because they may end up back at our place, setting us up and plotting something in the future. We have no idea their true intentions. It works both ways. Meet in a public place and if they seem like genuine couple, go back to their place for drinks. Make sure you keep your cell phone on.
We had a girl meet us and we would hang out every so often. I’d say we got somewhat close and would play together a few times a month. Eventually we found out that the first time she met us she had a gun in her purse. That freaked me out a little. We don’t know who we are meeting either!

How to Masturbate and hatch eggs in Pokémon Go.
Give your man a female’s orgasm.
Ladies, learn your man’s frenulum.
This is the spot you will rub against the vibrator. He may never achieve an orgasm with this method, because although it feels good, his instincts will be to move the vibrator out of the way and start stroking himself. This is the way his brain is wired to orgasm. New methods may frustrate him at first because he is conditioned to orgasm from specific stimuli. Sometimes frustration can be sexy, especially when you want to tease him. If you are a playful couple, I’d suggest tying his hands up. This will insure that no matter what he feels, he is forced to focus on what you are giving him rather than using a cheat code and grabbing his own penis to finish himself. I’ve learned that dirty talk should be kept almost ASMR, to relax and help him focus on what he is feeling. I can relate, because when I was first learning to orgasm, Ryan had to stay still and make subtle movements. It wasn’t until later I was able to have orgasms where his powerful movements actually helped me reach my climax
Well, the only reason we used Tumblr was for the awesome adult content, gifs, meeting other sex bloggers, and networking with others that have the same interests as us: sex. Those days appear to be over. We have now deleted all the gifs and images we posted over the years that I supposed would no longer be allowed. Now we will see what happens with the various blog topics that sit in the ghost town once known as Tumblr After Dark. Here is what we have left: