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Contributors to this article are women, straight men who know what they like, and gay and bisexual men (they have given and received). There’s a lot to blowjobs, and it’s important to know that everyone is different, there is no magic technique that will bring every guy back for more.
Table of Contents
- How do you receive head well?
- How do you know if you’re giving good head?
- Your enjoyment of the blowjob you’re giving
- Preparation
- Lubrication
- Stimulation
- Using your mouth (tongue, lips, cheeks, dealing with the hard surfaces)
- Using your hands
- Using your hands: Extending your mouth’s reach
- Using your hands: Grip
- Using your hands: Angle of cock
- Using your hands: Steadying his cock
- Using your hands: The scrotum
- Don’t forget the rest of the body
- Phases of blowjobs: Beginning
- Phases of blowjobs: Middle
- Phases of blowjobs: Approaching his orgasm
- Phases of blowjobs: During his orgasm
- Phases of blowjobs: After his orgasm
- The biggest secrets behind his greatest blowjob
How do you receive head well?
It seems to be common knowledge that many guys aren’t active enough in their feedback when it comes to receiving blowjobs. This is a failing of the school system in that Sex Ed in school isn’t comprehensive enough. They should be teaching us to be better lovers as well as safe lovers. Not with practical demonstrations, there are moral and legal issues with that abound, but tips and tricks would be useful.
Guys, the feedback you should be giving to be useful is:
- Moaning if you enjoy something,
- Telling the person gracing your cock with their lips if they’re scraping with teeth and you don’t like it,
- Telling the person gracing your cock with their lips if they’re scraping with teeth and you do like it – Do you want more? Tell them…
- Saying “Keep going” if you’re enjoying the way they’re doing something
- Saying “Speed up” or “slow down” if it would help your enjoyment.
- Saying “Could you use more saliva/lube?”
- If you’re not enjoying it, you’re (probably) not obligated to keep going while the other person gets frustrated from getting no reaction out of you. Try switching to something else.
Because of Emotion Lotion. Emotion Lotion was a brand name of personal lubricant that you can use alone or with a partner. “Gets warm when you rub it, gets hot when you blow on it — tastes great!” It boasted. A long time ago, my kid brother asked me to buy a bottle for him. At the time I believe they were sold at Frederick’s of Hollywood and of course, he didn’t want to be seen going into a ladies lingerie shop to buy it. So I bought him a bottle of Pina Colada Emotion Lotion (or was it Cinnamon?) the next day. Easiest $5 I ever made. But before I gave it to him, I asked if I could rub a little drop on my hand to see if I would be a victim of human combustion. That, and to see if it did, in fact, “taste great.”
Which brings us to ( cock cookies ). Who wouldn’t like to get cock cookies? Like many times before, I assumed it would just be another cookie cutter cookie, pun completely intended. The first thing I noticed was the intricate attention to detail: the colors, the artistry. It’s very easy to see that each one is made meticulously by hand. Clearly, they take pride in making a product that they can be proud of and that will make any first-time customer a repeat customer. I think the biggest surprise was how good these were. I expected a Royal Dansk Danish Butter Cookie taste – very crumbly, dry, and stale. Instead, it’s a firm, shortbread that melts in your mouth when sucked on. How do I know? Because I sucked on the Speedo wearing co(o)ckie until it was a tiny little mound of wet pastry on my tongue.
This Question and Answer is a bit different because I am responding to a comment from a recent blog: 
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My alarm went off as it always does. And like I always do, I extend my legs and arms and do a quick stretch to wake up. Although I’m not a morning person, every morning I look forward to waking up Ryan. I know that our mornings make his day, but it also makes mine. After the last bit of yawning and stretching, I begin to prop myself up. Today, however, Ryan scoots his body close to mine like we’re about to spoon. He pulls my hips toward him and starts to rub between my legs. I know exactly what he wants, so I grab the jar of coconut oil that I keep on my side of the bed and dab a little between my labia. He holds his already hard dick still for me as I position myself on him. Ryan glided in me effortlessly; I moved with him.